Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Abstinence Panties for Young Girls

You have heard of a chastity belt but now we have the abstinence panties with appropriate sayings on them to suggest or inspire staying a virgin or whatever abstinence you might desire of your young girls. After giving it very little thought I am beginning to conclude that this is someone's idea of a joke. Would a young girl buy these for herself for anything other than a joke? Would a mother buy them for her young daughter and have any reasonable idea of success? What will they inspire and I am totally convinced they will inspire a lot other than actual abstinence. Since I don't actually have a strong response to these panties I won't get all lit up about them but I just think they are a waste of time. Do you agree?

What are the best sex toys for women?

The best sex toys for women really does depend on what a woman is looking to accomplish. Does she want clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration? Is she looking for a powerful clitoral, vaginal or anal vibrator? Does she want to step onto the wild side of anal sex? Is she anxious to get a bit of g spot stimulation? So you see, as always, it depends now doesn't it? The question is asked as women often enter the world of sex toys with little or no point of reference. If they are in a relationship their mate may take the lead and purchase the sex toys. She may never have even considered the question, what type of sex toy do I need or want. So I offer a guide that seeks to answer the question regardless of who, what, when, where and why it is asked. What are the best sex toys for women?

First of all why are we talking about sex toys on a lingerie website? Simple, really as the two product groups, lingerie and sex toys are very intertwined. Sexually active women often purchase lingerie and at the same time are looking for sex toys. In fact more and more women are looking for sex toys all the time as the connection between lingerie and sex toys are closely intertwined. So where better than a lingerie website blog than to find information on such an important subject.

So let me suggest the top five sex toys that every woman should consider purchasing first and whether she will ever need to own more than these five is doubtful, to say the least.

1. The Rabbit Vibrator : A sex toy box without a rabbit vibrator is hard to imagine as they are versatile, multi functional vibrators that make fairly large claims then proceed to meet the hype. To be sure I am inclined to suggest a thrusting rabbit vibrator but a traditional rabbit will certainly do the job every woman asks. Many women want a feeling of fullness and the rabbit is rarely outdone. So you get the insertion of the rabbit that fills up her vagina and the clitoral stimulation of those rabbit ears against her clitoris which makes it even better for successful orgasms. There are so many variations of the Rabbit that a list would be very long indeed but suffice it to say that models from Doc Johnson, Pipedream and others are a safe bet.

2. How about a Magic Wand from Hitachi? Bulky, sure, heavy- a bit, powerful-most assureadly! After purchasing a couple of underpowered little vibrators many women simply get to the point. They want a powerful vibrator that will get them off and the answer is an electric vibrator that stands up to a woman's clitoris and gives her maximum vibrations per minute, day after day. These Hitachi's are just what the Dr. ordered if he or she is writing prescriptions for vibrators. All the negatives are over ridden by the power that this baby packs and if it is power she wants, give it to her.

3. Next on the hit parade is the pocket rocket ! Give her a small, relatively powerful vibrator that she can place exactly where she wants it to go. It isn't the most powerful vibrator on the planet but she may not want that, at least not all the time. The issue here is performance and maneuverability and the pocket rocket has that in spades. If you want the original pocket rocket then by all means buy it. If on the other hand you want a reasonable facsimile then buy one of the very many knockoffs available. They all ofer the same movement, light weight and maximum clitoral placement she may desire.

4. Realistic Dildo with Suction cup. What do you say about a product that many women and some men love so much? This little devil is what a woman wants and she might even admit it. Thickly veined with a length of approximately 6.5 inches long and 1.5 inches in diameter this is a great gift for any and every woman as long as you are discreet. This item has a suction cup and that can come in very handy in the shower or elsewhere when she wants to use her hands for clitoral stimulation or whatever.

5. Lubrication : Last and certainly not least is the issue of lubrication which comes into place whether it be a penis or a vibrator, a vaginal, clitoral or anal entry. Every woman needs lubrication to a greater or lesser degree and while there are many excellent lubricants on the market I opt for the Astroglide brand of water based lubricants. There are others but I had to make a decision and this is the winner.

Clearly another list would opt for other options but I don't believe you can go wrong with these choices.

Shapewear and Shapers are for Women of all Sizes and Shapes!

So you think you don't need to wear a shaper or shapewear because you are not overweight or plus size? So you think someone is going to tell you that you need to wear a girdle? So you think shapewear is only for fat or large women? Well the truth is that shapers are for every woman and you don't need to be plus size in order to benefit from shapers and shapewear.

Shapers operate on a very simple level and that is one of compression. Shapers hold you in, sculpt your body and the results are often dramatic and significant. They are so easy to wear, make you look better to extremely good and they are not expensive, at least not relative to how much good they do. So why don't more women wear them?

The answer to that question is more difficult than you might imagine. Women are willing to do just about anything to look better, sexier or simply more put together. So why the hesitation to wear a compression garment? Well, compression garments or shapers to the rest of us are not new to the game of women's fashions but they are the recipients of advances in the area of "miracle" fabrics that allow these garments to be easier to wear.

Back in the day compression garments went by terms such as girdles and they were heavy, ugly and in some cases painful to wear as controlling a woman's body was no easy task. At that time as in the present the best way to get maximum compression was to use rubber! That is rubber as in the same material used to make tires and other rubber products. Problem was then and now is that rubber does not breathe. You knew this before this article was published but wearing a garment that does not breathe is simply not enjoyable. Rubber traps fluids between the garment and a woman's body and there is nowhere to go, read that nowhere. But it does work as a compression garment and can often result in some weight loss along the lines of water loss.

In order for a garment to be made that results in compression you need a combination of flexibility, strength and comfort. Along the lines of a bullet proof vest, compression garments need to do their job but be comfortable in the process. That was not possible 50 years ago but due to advancements in materials, construction and design the makers of compression garments can now offer foundations that offer slimming effects, light weight and strength thus creating the compression garments now available on the market.

It really doesn't matter how big or small you are there are compression garments made for you! The reason for this is that not every woman needs the same compression throughout the garment and some garments require little if any compression. Perhaps all the exercise in the world will not get rid of all that remaining fat accumulation left after you delivered your baby. Possibly all you need is a little help for your upper thighs. The answer is a garment that offers light to medium compression in those areas to make you look absolutely fabulous in your new wispy dress or outfit. So what is a woman to do? Select the compression shapewear that works for you, no less or no more and that is it. There is no need to labor all evening in a bulky, heavy and cumbersome garment that is working on all areas of your body, rather than specific areas that you know need help.

There are so many options you have for shaper vendors how do you choose? The answer is Vedette Shapewear . This full line shapewear company offers a large variety of sexy shapers for all sorts of problem areas from your back fat to your calves and everywhere in between. To be sure there are Spanx, that offers low to medium compression garments that are fashionable and fabulous for many women and many others. Don't fail to use the garment your need to get the look you want. Keep in mind that the selection is dramatic and should keep you looking shapely, sexy and sophisticated.