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Why do Women Love to Wear Sexy Lingerie ?

Why do women want to wear sexy lingerie and why do men want their women to wear it? What causes a woman to want to wear lingerie, look sexy and expose their bodies to men? The answers to these may not be as obvious as it appears?

1. Tradition: What does tradition have to do with it anyway? Well why don't American women wear a burka or a kimono or perhaps grass skirts? Yes I know most women in this country don't wear any of those with the exception of the burka. But women have been wearing babydolls since the 1950's and sexy panties at least since the late 19th century. Tradition has a lot to do with what men and women wear and there is a tradition issue for a lot of lingerie such as stockings, garter belts and so much more. Variations of traditional undergarments make up a lot of women have under their skirts or what they wear in the bedroom. Although styles have changed dramatically there are still many traditions that girls who turn into women feel compelled to follow. Many of women's concepts of sexy lingerie and clothing have evolved over many decades and even a couple of centuries resulting in what she will wear tonight.

2. Popular Culture: What women and men see on television or the movies forms much of what they want to wear or see others wear. MTV, BET, Charlie's Angel's, Kill Bill are just a few of the images that have influenced what women wear in terms of sexy costumes, lingerie, shoes and boots. The skimpier, skankier, sluttier and suggestive they are, the more some women want to find that sexy lingerie, erotic clothing and suggestive outerwear. The media truly suggests to all of us what is cool, hot and sexy particularly when a gorgeous woman with a great body is seen wearing the item.




3. Porn: Ok, admit it guys if you see it in a porn movie being worn by the likes of a busty porn star then why shouldn't your wife look good in it? If it looks great on Jenna Jameson then it sells. She is hot and sexy and she has to wear something for some time doesn't she? While some of the outfits are fairly extreme we offer much of it or many items identical or nearly like it and they are best sellers.

4. Strip Joints: Who else but the strippers and dancers have pushed the envelope when it comes to provocative wear whether it be outerwear, not so much and lingerie? Sexy lingerie and stripper wear are often synonomous as they are skimpy, colorful and worn snug and suggestive.




5. The internet has encouraged the explosion of sexy lingerie sites that is much akin to the porn sites that supported the internet since its inception. Sexy lingerie like porn is at home at the internet as men and women can buy sexy stuff that their neighbors or children don't have to see. You don't have to park in front of a shady establishment and approach a sales clerk to buy a pair of sheer, crotchless panties. Anonynimity is salvation to the lingerie business as you don't have to let anyone know you are a closet fetish fan or enjoy wearing women's panties.

6. Why though do women want to wear sexy lingerie is partially answered by one through five as accessibility. The easier it is to find, the less expensive, the more frequently it is seen the liklihood is greater that women and men will want to buy the product. But why are women more inclined to buy and wear this stuff? Perhaps most simply because it is more accepted than ever. We see women 18 and older buying crotchless pantyhose, panties, micro mini skirts and 5 inch heels every year. Unlike older women they are conditioned to accept these items as normal, near normal and useful. Useful in that they are wearable in and often outside the bedroom. The men in their lives want them and often encourage these women to look outrageously sexy and arousing, at least in the bedroom. They have no or few objections to buying the sexy in lingerie. Social norms have changed in many ways. There may not be many frontiers to explore but that doesn't stop some women from trying.

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Panties are Seriously Sexy Lingerie

Women and men have a love with panties and they are seriously sexy lingerie women love to wear. Seriously sexy panties are no laughing matter as these panties are revealing, sensual garments that increase the temperature in the room whether you see them or not. It used to be that the panties women wore was a closely held secret and that largely hasn't changed although with all the cameras, phones with cameras and video recorders around it is not unusual to have a celebrity or two caught exposing their undergarments. Sales of sexy panties are up and the trend will likely continue for some time.

Exotic panties are just that, unusual one of a kind panties that not every woman should wear. These are not your grandmothers panties and while that is a good thing, they really aren't for every woman as it may be beyond her comfort zone. A pair of frilly, lacy and skimpy pair of panties aren't for everyday wear for most women as they are reserved for special occasions whenever she deems that may be.

New clothes can make a woman feel happy, content as they are a form of self expression, always have been, always will be. Panties like these lace up panties priced at $12.99 will make her very happy as they are ultra feminine and will make her look sexy as well as adventurous at the same time.

Unlike many other styles of lingerie panties are a garment that every woman wears and wears a lot. It partially explains why there are so many varied styles of panties on the market. This sheer lace up panty priced at $11.99 is another naughty pair of panties that women have fallen in love with as the styling is simple, color is perfect and the item is priced to sell.

Many women though are not anxious to wear such obviously sexy panties and still want to look and feel special and this sheer low rise thongs priced at $9.99.

No wonder men love giving panties as gifts like this Valentine's Day Panty in red, of course. There is no doubt that the love affair with women and panties is in no danger of cooling off. The momentary fad of going commando or not wearing panties may continue with a small number of women but that too shall pass.

With all of the selection of panties how do women choose which one to purchase. Do they prefer a sexy thong or perhaps a g string or maybe even a pair of boyshorts? Many women love thongs while others are somewhat disgusted by the string thing. Others buy the style of panty depending on what they are going to be wearing it with as in women who want to avoid the vpl-visible panty line at all costs. Some women buy the panty for coverage under short skirts, costumes and where and when they want to cover everything as modesty demands. Regardless of the reasons the panty serves many purposes in so many colors, styles and fabrics.

Lingerie Football League...no joke!

We're all very familiar with the NFL or National Football League-- with teams ranging from the Dallas Cowboys (Flirty Lingerie favorite) to the New England Patriots (Tom Brady, oh my!) But until recently I can't say that I knew the LFL or Lingerie Football League existed outside of every male fantasy.

It looks as though the LFL season will kick-off this September with Fox Mobile securing exclusve rights to stream directly to viewers mobile phones with interviews, behind-the scenes footage and video clips. Ten franchises (including the Dallas Desire, San Diego Seduction, Denver Dream, Chicago Bliss, etc.)will compete in games throughout a 20-week season.

Some say the LFL is simply objectivication of women, but my initial thoughts are that the uniforms are too cute...let's be honest, what do you think lingerie purveyors would say!? I'm not sure how well the "sport" may do in terms of ratings/fans/following-- what do you think? Guys, would you or your friends sit down and watch? Girls, what are your thoughts? I know there are plenty who are thinking to themselves right now, "Where can I tryout?!"

Apparently Foxers is the official uniform designer for the League but Flirty Lingerie is brainstorming new team uniforms as we speak. Stay tuned...we might be hooked!

--Lauren R. @ Flirty Lingerie!

Why buy sexy lingerie? 5 Great Reasons!

Why should you buy sexy lingerie is a great question. When you buy sexy lingerie remember there are five great reasons and you and your partner will be the beneficiaries! Buy sexy lingerie rather than that dull, bland granny panty stuff you find at the malls and you will wonder how you got by without sexy lingerie for this long.



While there are a lot of great reasons to buy sexy lingerie I have limited them to the top 5 reasons to buy sexy lingerie:

1. Self Esteem: Yes the old stand by is self esteem which is defined as "a confidence and satisfaction in oneself." Having confidence and satisfaction in yourself is vitally important in the way you look and feel day and night. So what does self esteem have to do with sexy lingerie? Lingerie like outerwear is an expression of you and who you are, what you like and how you look. The fact that the whole building or the entire block does not see you in your sexy panties and bra makes no difference. Looking and feeling good about yourself in your intimate apparel is immensely important. So why not just wear a pair of nude panties and a ratty old bra, or a flannel night gown and rabbit slippers. Nothing, but it does say everything about you, your sexuality and how you project yourself to your partner, male or female. Sexy lingerie exudes a positive attitude about your body, your sexuality and your appearance as sexy lingerie shows off your body rather than hides it.




Sexy lingerie says you are willing to express your sexuality, willing to show off those sexy legs, full breasts or firm rear. So what if you don't have those or don't think you have those attributes? Every woman, yes every woman has good and bad features. Every woman has one or more physical attributes that are fair, good and great. You have small breasts and all the sexy lingerie is about big boobs. You have a tummy and nothing will hide that. These attitudes are just what needs changing and wearing sexy lingerie is just what you need to come out of your shell. You can't change your self esteem just by saying change. You have to work at it and just remember there is sexy lingerie that emphasizes whatever attribute you desire. You can't categorize sexy lingerie as being about just sexy girls. Every girl is a sexy girl just waiting to come out and join the party.




2. Wearing sexy lingerie, and sexy clothing makes you feel sexy!
Try an experiment which you have probably experienced by yourself already. Buy a pair of sexy shoes , perhaps 4 inch heels and wear them with a pair of snug fitting jeans. No real dare here as your aren't being asked to venture outside in a micro mini skirt and no panties! See how people react to your "new" look and judge for yourself how it makes you feel to get at least one compliment on the look. Wear something outside of your comfort level and see what you have been missing. On the other hand wear a pair of the baggiest pairs of sweats, a stretched out of shape t-shirt and no make up and go to the mall and take a look at the responses. The fact is that how you look, in part determines how you feel as how you feel determines how you look. There is no seperating these two factors and it is the main reason why wearing sexy lingerie makes you feel sexy. It is rather hard to wear a see through babydoll that exposes your breasts and a pair of skimpy panties with a pair of high heels and try and feel frumpy, just try. It is not possible. So buying sexy lingerie and wearing it will as a matter of course make you feel sexy. Many of us were taught to hide our sexuality and as a child and young adult that may be appropriate. As an adult in a relationship that training is actually detrimental as expressing your sexuality is not only appropriate but very healthy.

3. Sexy lingerie is the answer to the question: How can I improve my personal, sexual relationship?
While wearing sexy lingerie will not rescue a broken relationship all by itself, it is very important in the endeavor. Sexy lingerie leads to romance, sex and sharing yourself with another. Sexy lingeris is the universal language of romance. Appearing in sexy lingerie sends an unmistakeable message to your partner that you are open to making love or being romantic. It is unavoidable that showing up in sexy lingerie can only be interpreted one way. This is yet another reason why buying sexy lingerie is a great idea. What do you think about when you see a young woman wearing a sexy corset, thigh high stockings and high heels? Painting? Sewing? Of course not as culturally we are conditioned to associate lingerie with romance. Who doesn't need more romance in their lives?



4. Lingerie shows off your assets and you are in control of what assets to show!
The variety in the kind and quality of sexy lingerie is awesome. You can and will find whatever type of lingerie you need to accentuate the areas of your body that you want to emphasize the most. A little thought and the help of a good lingerie boutique will do wonders for every woman. Not every woman should wear just any type of lingerie anymore than every woman should wear every type of shoes, skirt or hair color. Wear what makes you look best! Want to show off your breast? Wear a corset. Need to pull that tummy in a bit? A corset also works well as it is meant to control your waist while emphasizing your breasts. Small breasts? Wear a padded bra, or a snug fitting camisole and panty set. Short legs? Wear some high heels and a pair of stockings that make your legs appear taller. Big butt? Wear snug fitting chemise that hugs and shows off that booty butt.

The suggestions are just a sampling that will work for you and your partner. All women need some help somewhere or they have already had plastic surgery. So don't hold off buying sexy lingerie because of your "problem" areas. Don't waste the opportunity to show off what the man above gave you.

5. Stay young and energetic instead of old and frumpy.
Some day romance and sex will be a distant memory. Some day you will have your memories to keep you warm. Don't let time pass you by when you can express your sexuality now. This is not a suggestion that you dress slutty, look like you are trying too hard or just plain have bad taste. This is yet another suggestion for how and why to buy sexy lingerie. Your partner would love to see the new you. He will be amazed at the transformation and the good part is that no one in the world but the two of you have to know the first thing about your personal lives. Stay young and sexy by taking a few chances that in retrospect will be just the beginning. You can be a school maid at Sunday services, and a wild hot milf in the bedroom. Yes, you can have it both ways.

Welcome to the Flirty Lingerie Blog

Welcome to the Flirty Lingerie Blog where sexy lingerie is what Flirty Lingerie is all about. Flirty lingerie is sexy lingerie and this is the place to get information on the latest styles of lingerie. Whether it be sexy panties, bras, panty and bra sets or corsets this is the place to be. If this is you first visit to our blog, or you are returning we first want to say Welcome!
While we have been slow in adding to our blog, we are committed to bringing everything lingerie to the web, our customers and readers.

Why read about sexy lingerie ? Few subjects are as compelling, interesting and down right sexy as lingerie. Women love lingerie and men love women in lingerie! Right? Well some polls reveal that younger men love women and lingerie is not all that necessary. We understand that many styles and types of lingerie and sexy lingerie are generational in nature. The polls we have seen show that younger men prefer their women in panties and a bra, or a cami top and boy shorts. This is sexy lingerie if you think about it. If a woman wears it as an under garment, then many consider that lingerie. No matter what you call it, sleepwear, underwear, lingerie or pj's, the truth is lingerie or intimate apparel is a lot of things to a lot of people.

Many women don't like the "trashy lingerie" like boob out bras, crotchless panties and lingerie that makes them look or feel slutty. Other women and men long for the look of a garter belt, stockings and a matching bra. Nobody is wrong when it comes to Lingerie, or Sexy Lingerie as if there is a difference. The truth is depending on where you live in the world and what the sexual mores of the culture will decide what is sexy lingerie. Lingerie is evolving along with our society and so are our views of women's bras and panties. Lingerie is fashion and it seems everyone who is anyone has or will soon have a lingerie line.

Maybe it is because we are in the lingerie business, but lingerie is seemingly always in the news. If nothing else it is exciting to look at, delightful to wear and everyone has an opinion about it. While many blogs have comment areas that are rarely used we hope to peak interest so that many of you will feel compelled to comment about our posts and let us know what you think.

Stay tuned!

Happy Valentine's Night!

Happy Valentines' Day should really be Happy Valentine's Night for couples. Happy Valentine's Night is more appropriate as Valentines is celebrated at night, at dinner, or even in bed. I suggest you look at this from a more realistic perspective. Valentines Day is all about romance! Valentines Day has really nothing to do with the day, but rather the night. Anyone who has been in love, searching for love, or simply thinking about Love on Valentines Day knows exactly what I mean. Don't deny it cause you know it is true.



For those who don't get what I mean, let me explain! Valentines Day is about chocolate which is renowned for its erotic and potentially aphrodisiac value. Flowers are a symbol of romance and are given as a symbol of friendship, and so much more. Sexy lingerie is simply about romance and an evening filled with erotic thoughts and behaviour. What about that romantic dinner? What about that extravagant gift of diamonds or jewels? The gifts given during the day, or cards exchanged during daylight hours are all about what one or both hopes or believes will occur after the sun goes down, thus why I say that Valentines Day is all about Valentines Night.

To be sure, Valentine's is anticipated by many, and dreaded by others. Many people do not have a Valentine on Valentine's Night. Admit it, it may be you, as it was once me. On Valentines Day you see it, and actually for many weeks prior. The commercials such as every Kiss begins with K!, or are you getting her or him candy, a card, jewelry, or maybe even a car for Valentines Day? To be sure the day has become like a lot of special days, just another reason for Hallmark to design a card. I even saw a card on a Mexican food restaurant that said " Celebrate Valentines Day with us! That is not to say that eating Mexican food on Valentines Day is inappropriate, it may be a wonderful idea, but I just never thought of it as particularly romantic.

How do I suggest you celebrate Valentine's Night? Well, I think you know that it must contain some sexy lingerie. But it should start with acts of love and kindness that will make the sexy lingerie an even better idea. Consider these ideas! I believe in inexpensive ideas, just lots of them: Go to his or her work and fill their car with balloons! Yes, fill it! I will never forget when my boyfriend did this for me. All my friends at work were so excited to see my face when I saw it, and passers by honked and I was embarrased in a totally delighted way. Arrange for him or her to get a special delivery- preferably not flowers. Try cookie bouquets and while telling him or her you love them, also tell them not to bring them home as they are for her/him and their work mates to share.

How about the good old sign displayed on the way home. While some areas do not allow them, many still let you rent a small sign for the day with a special message for the Valentines girl or guy. Here's a good one. Order their favorite food or other item and have it special delivered via Fed Ex. My husband will NEVER forget when I arraned to have Randy's Donuts from Inglewood California Fed Exe'd to arrive on the day. The people at Randy's were awesome. Remember the huge donut that towers over the donut shop in Los Angeles? You have seen it in movies, tv, print, almost everywhere as it is a cultural landmark. Well, the donuts are perfect, if not a very guilty pleasure. Imagine his or her surprise when their special pizza from John's Pizza in Greenwich Village in New York shows up! Wow! How about their special cheese cake from The Cheesecak Factory? The list is endless and you know what she or he really loves! Almost all of them have websites, or of course a phone!

Finally, make sure the final surprise of the evening is sexy underwear from FlirtyLingerie.com.

Flirty Lingerie or Sexy Lingerie?

Flirty lingerie or sexy lingerie, that is the question. Are you in the flirty lingerie camp or do you prefer the sexy, even slutty lingerie? After owning a lingerie web site for 10 years, and a retail store for four, I have come to a conclusion that there are two camps when it comes to what is desireable in lingerie. The flirty lingerie camp is younger, looking for boyshorts, cami sets and cute lingerie while the sexy lingerie camp is more into open bust, crotchless panties and revealing lingerie that gets a guys pulse rate going. What is this talk about camps? I thought this was a lingerie blog? Well it sure is a lingerie blog but after years of observation it is clear that not everyone is looking for the same thing or effect when it comes to lingerie.

A recent survey in England's Daily Mail suggests that some men aren't turned on by the strappy, complicated sexy lingerie that manufacturers seem to belived. Instead they suggest that simple, flirty and feminine lingerie is what gets the English men's blood boiling. "The classic image of a suspender set with a push-up bra is what most women imagine gets their chap going. As you'll see from the results overleaf, though, nothing could be further from the truth. Whether it's a simple white set-up with a sexy bow, or some cute polka dot pants, the items that score big with our panel - made up of myself, Simon Mills and Alex Bilmes - are those that suggest innocence and fun".

Now, the blokes across may or may not be on to something, but it does closely track purchase patterns by girls under 30. So is age a factor in the type of lingerie women as well as men purchase? The answer is yes! More interesting is why women buy sexier lingerie as they get older. Some answers are fairly obvious while others are more subtle. One likely answer is women get bolder, more confident as they get older and thus their tastes in all things change. The thinking goes that young women ages 20 through 29 are not as confident in bed, not as knowledable about sex and don't find the need or value in wearing sexy lingerie. The gaining of confidence is likely true as men and women need time to gain experience, maturity and confidence. It is a hard argument to make that a 19 year old woman is as experienced as a 30, 35 or 40 year old woman. This translates into a woman finding a value in sexy lingerie as she matures.

Similarly many women are in committed relationships as they get older while younger women may not be in such relationships. It may take these relationships for women to feel comfortable in buying and wearing sexy lingerie. Also men would tend to refrain to buy a one night stand or short term lingerie. It is undeniable that many women would not want to go through the ritual of wearing sexy lingerie after dating for a week or perhaps even a couple of months. Wearing sexy lingerie is an act that usually requires a woman to be in a relationship for a period of time rather than on a first date.

Different women find lingerie of value at different times in their lives. Many young women don't appreciate the value of lingerie for a variety of reasons. One may be that the men in their lives are not as interested in forplay or a romantic evening preferring to participate in sexual relations without the pre game of soft music, watching a video, soft lighting and so on. A larger number of women enjoy the total experience of a romantic evening and sexy lingerie is an integral part of this enjoyable experience. Many if not most women prefer men to take their time, arouse her, kiss her, make her feel special rather than slam, bam thank you maam! Small wonder!

We all remember the spontaniety of the first time we had sex, the urgency of making love in the car, at a friends house, when our parents were away and all that lust. As we age the definition of sex changes to some degree and along with that time women and men see sexy lingerie as a good thing. Regardless of the reasons flirty lingerie or sexy lingerie remains a question only now they both have their own time and place.