Fantasy Lingerie Costumes for Clubs, Bars, Bedrooms and Romance!

Some of our fantasy, bedroom and lingerie costumes are so revealing they must be worn in the bedroom or other private location. Our fantasy, bedroom and lingerie costumes are often open cup, crotchless, sheer and very abbreviated. Thus they are both very sexy and very suggestive and most women simply won't wear them where men, other than their husbands or boyfriends can see them. The reasons are due to a sense of self respect and humility but generally they simply do not want other men seeing them near naked and/or attempting to get their hands on the girls.

Lingerie and Sexy Clothes make me feel Sexy!

I am asked constantly why lingerie is so popular and also why do women seem to always be on the look out for sexy clothing ? The answer is in our title as lingerie and sexy clothes make every woman feel sexy! Women, as well as men to a lesser degree wear clothes that make them feel sexy and by extension look sexy as one begets the other. Looking sexy is a gift given to us by our creator and within limits we should exploit it in the pursuit of looking and feeling our best. Does this mean we tramp it up and look slutty and suggestive? Well, no not really but looking sexy is certainly within reason although if you ask 100 women what constitutes within reason you will likely get multiple answers to the question.




Are women simply looking for attention, seeking fufillment or just wanting to be recognized? All of those and many more as far as I can tell and for the most part they are a sign of a healthy and well adjusted individual. Is it true that it is better to look good than to feel good? Well, not really but we all know that when we feel good, we look good and on and on. Looking good is fundamental to our mental health and wanting to look good is a sign of good mental health. Is wanting to look trashy, trampy and downright outrageous good or bad. Here most would agree that looking good does have its limits. In other words a woman can go too far and cross the line or jump the shark when it comes to looking attractive.




We often see that person who has crossed the line but not as often as one might imagine. When you consider how free everyone in the free world is free to dress or not dress up then you might wonder what keeps everyone in line. After all there are no real fashion police and rarely do people actually express that opinion they may have voiced in private. So what keeps women, in this case from breaking all the rules? In all liklihood the answer is that the rules of society are strongly woven and breaking the societal rule is rarely if ever violated. Society is a strong incentive to stay within the lines and stick to the rules. Since the rules are rarely written down most women rarely get close to the edge.




Women want to look sexy and often do but the truth is they rarely break the rules for fear of being labeled outcasts. Outcasts are after all social deviants who are to be avoided on some if not all levels. So when you look at a woman who is "outside" the norms consider that she is likely not really outside any limits, only superficially scratching the limits. When was the last time you actually saw a woman who was violating the social rules about what to wear? The answer if rarely, if ever and even then the question has to be asked as to how far did she actually go? I submit that the violation is likely a minor infraction, at best. How far did she actually go in violating the societal norms the rest of us follow? Did she wear a hot pink bra with her navy top? Did you actually get a glimpse of her panties? Did you see her bra straps? How about her pants were too tight? Now I know those are pretty serious infractions but all in all very minor deviations from societies norms.



Why is it that there aren't more serious violations? Is it because the rules are the rules and breaking them is considered very violative and damaging to othe rest of us. I mean what if a young boy saw a 19 year old young womans underwear? Would the young boy be damaged beyond repair? What if a 75 year old widower saw a 17 year olds underwear? Would that cause 3 years of therapy? Of course not and you know it. The truth is the damage would be non existant. Sure the lawyers would run ads asking "have you been exposed to the excruciating exposure of a man's underpants"? As a society we all comport ourselves rather well as far as I can tell, don't you agree?

Are young women afraid that if they wear provocative clothing they will be exposed to the threat of having "asked for it" in the event they are raped? Not likely as we all know that you cannot accept and invite the horrible act of rape simply by the choice of what you wear over your body. No woman can ask for being raped although many rapists or wanna be rapists often take a run at it.

Society has a grip and a strong one at that on our behaviour and has placed limits on what we can wear, how we can dress, what we can expose and by and large we all follow the rule. Society makes its statement and we are all, most of us, more than willing to go along for the ride.

Sexy Costumes for Halloween 2011

Yes, it is time to start thinking about Halloween, 2011 as we are already in late July and it is only 101 days until Halloween and we are getting ready for this very special time of year. Of course we have plenty of new costumes for you to consider and they are very special. How about this sexy nurse costume? It is cute, sexy, hot and well you get the idea, it is a sexy halloween costume and we have plenty more for your review.

How about this very sexy Marie Antoinette Costume that is short and tight and it looks like it belongs in the French Renaissance doesn't it? Well maybe if they were on crack!

There is no doubt this is going to be a really fun Halloween as we can feel it in the air, almost since it is so darn hot now we really are looking forward to a little cooler air and the onset of winter but we can wait as we have so much to do in the meantime. How about this sexy beer girl in her hot little number?

Sexy Costumes for Halloween 2008

While it may be a little early to be thinking about Halloween, it is fun to preview the costumes and see where the vendors are going and what girls may be wearing this year. Truthfully the most popular costumes over the past couple of years are those that were very revealing, but most girls have a degree of modesty as well as no desire to expose all their gifts. Halloween used to be exclusively a children's holiday with trick or treating for candy being the highlight of the evening. In the eighties and nineties a series of poisionings, foreign objects found in candy and a general hysteria caused many parents to refuse to allow their kids to go around the neighberhood begging for candy. Who can blame a parent that fears some disturbed person in the area wants to get a mention in the newspaper and poison her child?

Schools responded and held Halloween events, then some intellectuals decided that since the holiday began as a devil worship event that schools should not participate in such a celebration. The holiday started losing its attraction for children and their parents. Enter the 18 to 30 young adult crowd, many of whom enjoyed the fun part of Halloween, but weren't about to walk around with a pillow case and yell "Trick or Treat" when the door opened. Meanwhile many lingerie manufacturers saw an opening and they ran with the ball. Enter sexy costumes, fairy tale costumes for young adults and other varieties of costumes meant to be worn by young women that were short, tight and very revealing. The rush was on to make costumes that girls wanted to wear and there is not doubt the designers have done an excellant job of making sexy costumes for every girl, or at least some of them.