Friday, September 21, 2012
Open Bust Lingerie leaves a Sexy Girl exposed!
Monday, August 8, 2011
Lingerie and Sexy Clothes make me feel Sexy!

I am asked constantly why lingerie is so popular and also why do women seem to always be on the look out for sexy clothing ? The answer is in our title as lingerie and sexy clothes make every woman feel sexy! Women, as well as men to a lesser degree wear clothes that make them feel sexy and by extension look sexy as one begets the other. Looking sexy is a gift given to us by our creator and within limits we should exploit it in the pursuit of looking and feeling our best. Does this mean we tramp it up and look slutty and suggestive? Well, no not really but looking sexy is certainly within reason although if you ask 100 women what constitutes within reason you will likely get multiple answers to the question.

Are women simply looking for attention, seeking fufillment or just wanting to be recognized? All of those and many more as far as I can tell and for the most part they are a sign of a healthy and well adjusted individual. Is it true that it is better to look good than to feel good? Well, not really but we all know that when we feel good, we look good and on and on. Looking good is fundamental to our mental health and wanting to look good is a sign of good mental health. Is wanting to look trashy, trampy and downright outrageous good or bad. Here most would agree that looking good does have its limits. In other words a woman can go too far and cross the line or jump the shark when it comes to looking attractive.

We often see that person who has crossed the line but not as often as one might imagine. When you consider how free everyone in the free world is free to dress or not dress up then you might wonder what keeps everyone in line. After all there are no real fashion police and rarely do people actually express that opinion they may have voiced in private. So what keeps women, in this case from breaking all the rules? In all liklihood the answer is that the rules of society are strongly woven and breaking the societal rule is rarely if ever violated. Society is a strong incentive to stay within the lines and stick to the rules. Since the rules are rarely written down most women rarely get close to the edge.

Women want to look sexy and often do but the truth is they rarely break the rules for fear of being labeled outcasts. Outcasts are after all social deviants who are to be avoided on some if not all levels. So when you look at a woman who is "outside" the norms consider that she is likely not really outside any limits, only superficially scratching the limits. When was the last time you actually saw a woman who was violating the social rules about what to wear? The answer if rarely, if ever and even then the question has to be asked as to how far did she actually go? I submit that the violation is likely a minor infraction, at best. How far did she actually go in violating the societal norms the rest of us follow? Did she wear a hot pink bra with her navy top? Did you actually get a glimpse of her panties? Did you see her bra straps? How about her pants were too tight? Now I know those are pretty serious infractions but all in all very minor deviations from societies norms.
Why is it that there aren't more serious violations? Is it because the rules are the rules and breaking them is considered very violative and damaging to othe rest of us. I mean what if a young boy saw a 19 year old young womans underwear? Would the young boy be damaged beyond repair? What if a 75 year old widower saw a 17 year olds underwear? Would that cause 3 years of therapy? Of course not and you know it. The truth is the damage would be non existant. Sure the lawyers would run ads asking "have you been exposed to the excruciating exposure of a man's underpants"? As a society we all comport ourselves rather well as far as I can tell, don't you agree?
Are young women afraid that if they wear provocative clothing they will be exposed to the threat of having "asked for it" in the event they are raped? Not likely as we all know that you cannot accept and invite the horrible act of rape simply by the choice of what you wear over your body. No woman can ask for being raped although many rapists or wanna be rapists often take a run at it.
Society has a grip and a strong one at that on our behaviour and has placed limits on what we can wear, how we can dress, what we can expose and by and large we all follow the rule. Society makes its statement and we are all, most of us, more than willing to go along for the ride.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Panties are Seriously Sexy Lingerie
Exotic panties are just that, unusual one of a kind panties that not every woman should wear. These are not your grandmothers panties and while that is a good thing, they really aren't for every woman as it may be beyond her comfort zone. A pair of frilly, lacy and skimpy pair of panties aren't for everyday wear for most women as they are reserved for special occasions whenever she deems that may be.
New clothes can make a woman feel happy, content as they are a form of self expression, always have been, always will be. Panties like these lace up panties priced at $12.99 will make her very happy as they are ultra feminine and will make her look sexy as well as adventurous at the same time.
Unlike many other styles of lingerie panties are a garment that every woman wears and wears a lot. It partially explains why there are so many varied styles of panties on the market. This sheer lace up panty priced at $11.99 is another naughty pair of panties that women have fallen in love with as the styling is simple, color is perfect and the item is priced to sell.
Many women though are not anxious to wear such obviously sexy panties and still want to look and feel special and this sheer low rise thongs priced at $9.99.
No wonder men love giving panties as gifts like this Valentine's Day Panty in red, of course. There is no doubt that the love affair with women and panties is in no danger of cooling off. The momentary fad of going commando or not wearing panties may continue with a small number of women but that too shall pass.
With all of the selection of panties how do women choose which one to purchase. Do they prefer a sexy thong or perhaps a g string or maybe even a pair of boyshorts? Many women love thongs while others are somewhat disgusted by the string thing. Others buy the style of panty depending on what they are going to be wearing it with as in women who want to avoid the vpl-visible panty line at all costs. Some women buy the panty for coverage under short skirts, costumes and where and when they want to cover everything as modesty demands. Regardless of the reasons the panty serves many purposes in so many colors, styles and fabrics.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Welcome to the Flirty Lingerie Blog

While we have been slow in adding to our blog, we are committed to bringing everything lingerie to the web, our customers and readers.
Why read about sexy lingerie ? Few subjects are as compelling, interesting and down right sexy as lingerie. Women love lingerie and men love women in lingerie! Right? Well some polls reveal that younger men love women and lingerie is not all that necessary. We understand that many styles and types of lingerie and sexy lingerie are generational in nature. The polls we have seen show that younger men prefer their women in panties and a bra, or a cami top and boy shorts. This is sexy lingerie if you think about it. If a woman wears it as an under garment, then many consider that lingerie. No matter what you call it, sleepwear, underwear, lingerie or pj's, the truth is lingerie or intimate apparel is a lot of things to a lot of people.
Many women don't like the "trashy lingerie" like boob out bras, crotchless panties and lingerie that makes them look or feel slutty. Other women and men long for the look of a garter belt, stockings and a matching bra. Nobody is wrong when it comes to Lingerie, or Sexy Lingerie as if there is a difference. The truth is depending on where you live in the world and what the sexual mores of the culture will decide what is sexy lingerie. Lingerie is evolving along with our society and so are our views of women's bras and panties. Lingerie is fashion and it seems everyone who is anyone has or will soon have a lingerie line.
Maybe it is because we are in the lingerie business, but lingerie is seemingly always in the news. If nothing else it is exciting to look at, delightful to wear and everyone has an opinion about it. While many blogs have comment areas that are rarely used we hope to peak interest so that many of you will feel compelled to comment about our posts and let us know what you think.
Stay tuned!
Friday, January 25, 2008
Happy Valentine's Night!

For those who don't get what I mean, let me explain! Valentines Day is about chocolate which is renowned for its erotic and potentially aphrodisiac value. Flowers are a symbol of romance and are given as a symbol of friendship, and so much more. Sexy lingerie is simply about romance and an evening filled with erotic thoughts and behaviour. What about that romantic dinner? What about that extravagant gift of diamonds or jewels? The gifts given during the day, or cards exchanged during daylight hours are all about what one or both hopes or believes will occur after the sun goes down, thus why I say that Valentines Day is all about Valentines Night.
To be sure, Valentine's is anticipated by many, and dreaded by others. Many people do not have a Valentine on Valentine's Night. Admit it, it may be you, as it was once me. On Valentines Day you see it, and actually for many weeks prior. The commercials such as every Kiss begins with K!, or are you getting her or him candy, a card, jewelry, or maybe even a car for Valentines Day? To be sure the day has become like a lot of special days, just another reason for Hallmark to design a card. I even saw a card on a Mexican food restaurant that said " Celebrate Valentines Day with us! That is not to say that eating Mexican food on Valentines Day is inappropriate, it may be a wonderful idea, but I just never thought of it as particularly romantic.
How do I suggest you celebrate Valentine's Night? Well, I think you know that it must contain some sexy lingerie. But it should start with acts of love and kindness that will make the sexy lingerie an even better idea. Consider these ideas! I believe in inexpensive ideas, just lots of them: Go to his or her work and fill their car with balloons! Yes, fill it! I will never forget when my boyfriend did this for me. All my friends at work were so excited to see my face when I saw it, and passers by honked and I was embarrased in a totally delighted way. Arrange for him or her to get a special delivery- preferably not flowers. Try cookie bouquets and while telling him or her you love them, also tell them not to bring them home as they are for her/him and their work mates to share.
How about the good old sign displayed on the way home. While some areas do not allow them, many still let you rent a small sign for the day with a special message for the Valentines girl or guy. Here's a good one. Order their favorite food or other item and have it special delivered via Fed Ex. My husband will NEVER forget when I arraned to have Randy's Donuts from Inglewood California Fed Exe'd to arrive on the day. The people at Randy's were awesome. Remember the huge donut that towers over the donut shop in Los Angeles? You have seen it in movies, tv, print, almost everywhere as it is a cultural landmark. Well, the donuts are perfect, if not a very guilty pleasure. Imagine his or her surprise when their special pizza from John's Pizza in Greenwich Village in New York shows up! Wow! How about their special cheese cake from The Cheesecak Factory? The list is endless and you know what she or he really loves! Almost all of them have websites, or of course a phone!
Finally, make sure the final surprise of the evening is sexy underwear from FlirtyLingerie.com.