Thursday, November 12, 2009

Women Love Men Who Wear Sexy Underwear!

Women love men who wear men's sexy underwear as women appreciate the way it makes a man look. Sexy underwear for men is a subject many women discuss with their girlfriends and the men in their lives and they indicate they wish men would wear the sexy underwear more often.

Few will disagree that women wear sexy underwear, panties and bras for themselves as well as the men in their lives. Men on the other hand rarely wear sexy underwear for themselves or more importantly the women in their lives. Perhaps it is fear, embarrassment or just habit but men often appear in the bedroom wearing those ugly tighty whities or even boxers while they expect the woman in their lives to wear skimpy panties, crotch less panties and open bust bras and lingerie. Are men lazy, frightened or just unaccustomed to wearing sexy underwear? While it is unrealistic to expect that men would wear sexy underwear as often as women, at least in the short term, isn't it time for men to step it up? Without going into too much detail women are used to being sex objects and while many enjoy being put on a pedestal others find it demeaning and sexist. Men though are guilty of putting many women on that sexual object pedestal by insisting, suggesting or demanding that the girl in his life wear naughty underwear and often not so shyly suggesting that his girl show off in public as though she was a trophy. So why can't a man show off his package at least in the bedroom?

I don't do that kind of stuff, or I am not gay or I look hot without wearing man panties or sexy underwear are just some of the excuses men make when it comes to wearing hot and sexy underwear for men. We do not live in a culture that starts conditioning men at an early age that they take care of their skin, hair and bodies the way women do. Plenty of men work out look and smell good but we persist in thinking that only gay men wear sexy underwear or take care of themselves. Even if only partially true this is a very sad statement about and for men. No one wants men to become women as women have that very well in hand. On the other hand many women want the men in their lives to take more care in their appearance and often men shrug it off successfully.

Sexy men's underwear is not a revolutionary concept as many men including sexy gay men indeed take better care of their appearance than straight men. This is the subject of many jokes and anecdotes as many men and women consider that a good looking man must be gay and they are often correct. A man who is well groomed, hair, skin, and teeth as well as impeccably groomed is a homosexual. Somehow straight men are left to be something less and the straight women who want a heterosexual man in her life must often wish he were "more gay". After all if taking care of oneself is a gay characteristic then why not wish for more gay men in the world.

Straight men are lazy both physically and in terms of the time spent looking sexy for the woman in their lives. While it doesn't take much time to buy some sexy underwear most men don't bother. They will often allow their girlfriends or wives to do the shopping for them as though they were little children. While this is not all straight men, gay men seem to relish doing the shopping for themselves and the results are obvious. This is not about bashing straight men and exalting the virtues of gay men but on the other hand straight men don't often listen to their girl friends and wives. Wearing sexy underwear or men's lingerie to a man is really not that different than a woman wearing sexy lingerie. Men need to get more comfortable with their own sexuality or as it is often put get in touch with their feminine side. In doing so he sends her a message that it is important to him how he looks to her and what she thinks of him in sexual terms. Here are a couple of things a man can do to increase his sexual quotient with the woman he loves.

1. Don't wear a thong unless you have the body for it and you probably don't! I didn't say wear clown shoes just because she asks you to so keep some of your dignity if you have any after winning the belching and farting contest.

2. Do wear bun huggers or those men's underwear that is similar to a woman's boy shorts. They are half way between briefs and boxers only snug and make you look like you have a big penis! Every guy wants a bigger penis and every woman wants a man who has a big penis. Forget that stuff about size doesn't matter unless you still believe politicians don't lie constantly.

3. Shave your privates as it makes your package look cleaner and bigger. There is that word again bigger. Even if your girl doesn't tell you she has never faked an orgasm you aren't dumb enough to believe it are you?

4. Buy some muscle shirts, snug fitting t-shirts in many colors and throw away those ill fitting t-shirts that you got from the Dodgers when they won the pennant in 1907. They look ratty, you look ratty and when she wakes up she sees you in it and she runs into the bathroom to barf. You thought she was on her period. Gee you will believe anything, won't you?

5. If you have a beard, lose it. If you let your facial hair grow trim it daily, yes daily. If you have a mustache lose it you look like a porn star and not one with a big wanker.

6. Trim the nose hair, hair in your ears and trim those eyebrows. Do you want a girlfriend with a unibrow or a mustache?

7. Go to a hair stylist! Find a gorgeous one who will lie to you to get extra tips but if your girlfriend likes it tell her your hair stylist is hot and she won't believe you. If she finally meets the hair stylist you can always tell her you told her the hair stylist was gorgeous.

8. Smell good- all the time! I did not say put a bottle of cologne on you every morning I said smell good all the time. Perhaps the smell of soap turns her on, perhaps the cologne or perhaps the smell of beer on your breath.

9. Get a robe and join the 21st century. Get a nice summer and winter robe. Do you notice all the hot guys wear them in the movies? Wear it open with your hot manties underneath. Manties are man panties, get used to the name and embrace it as it is you.

10. If you have body hair get rid of it, now! Get up and get rid of it now! Women don't love man hair, no one loves man hair particularly the gross thatch on one's back or chest. Have it removed and rationalize the pain as the price of being a hot guy.

11. Brush your teeth! Floss your teeth and put the toilet seat down!

12. Wear boxers sparingly but wear them. Have a black pair, burgundy, dark green and dark blue. All masculine colors.

13. Start smoking a pipe- just kidding! Don't smoke a cigar in your girlfriends face! Don't belch, fart or otherwise emit noises from orifices.

14. Occasionally don't wear any underwear at all! Show her you have some mystery as you take your pants off and your Johnson plops out, or for most of you guys plips out.

15. Wear a men's thong that has a built in cock ring that will keep you semi hard and make you look like that dream she had about the pool boy the other night that she didn't tell you about. I know I said don't wear a thong, just don't wear a regular thong is what I said.

If you follow all of my suggestions either your wife or girlfriend will be in lust with you all of the time or most all other women will be and you won't need her anyway.

Garter Belt- How to and Where to Wear a Garter Belt

How to wear a garter belt and where to wear a garter belt is explained here. A garter belt is worn to hold your stockings up on your legs. The garter belt has been used by women for ages in an attempt to wear stockings comfortably and to keep the stockings from sagging or falling down around her ankles.

Garter belts are made of different fabrics and are held up in a variety of ways as well. The garter belt of previous decades as well as centuries did not have the benefit of the "miracle" fabrics we are accustomed to today. I am referring to stretch lycra spandex that stretches to fit and women wear frequently in many garments. In the past the garter belt with often made of satin or a brocade fabric with no stretch whatsoever. Thus the garter belt had to fit snugly in order to do its job. The closures often consisted of hook and eye closures also found on other foundation garments of the time like girdles and corsets. The garter belt was worn just above the hips or lower waist as it is today. Today though the content of many garter belts is often made of a high content of spandex allowing many more inexpensive garter belts to have no closures at all as the garment is pulled on and fits much like a pair of high waisted panties. Many women find these cheaper garter belts to be novelty like as they may not hold up her stockings all day where she is walking, sitting and standing constantly.

Garter belts have hangers ranging from four usually to as many as 6 or even 8 on occasion. These hangers literally hand from the belt via stretch straps and at the end is a fastener to hook onto the top of the stockings. The fastener is generally a metal eyelet that reduces down to grasp the stocking and keep it in place on the woman's thighs. These are strategically placed on her legs to keep the stockings up and in place.

Where a woman wears a sexy garter belt is dependant on a lot of factors all up to her. Garter belts fell out of fashion in the early 1960's in large part due to the arrival of pantyhose. Millions of women threw their garter belts away as they were at least in part viewed as uncomfortable and unwelcome now that a one piece marvel known as pantyhose had arrived. No more taking the time to put the garter belt on, adjust her stockings and then have the hangers or the garter belt itself show through tight or clingy dresses. Skirt were another matter as the stockings often allowed her thighs to be exposed which was considered unacceptable.

Today women wear garter belts in a limited number of settings as many women don't bother wearing pantyhose anymore and garter belts have a stigma attached to them. While not entirely negative the stigma is as a result of the "reputation" of sorts that has attached to the garter belt. Since the garter belt was fashionable, then discarded the reemergence has left some remnants. Garter belts are considered retro lingerie to most and simply too sexually charged for some. In other words wearing garter belts means something more than simply getting dressed. They are superfluous to most in that either wear no hosiery or pantyhose but why wear garter belts and stockings. It is just this association that causes the garter belt to be such a necessary accessory in a sexy lingerie wardrobe.

Not to be forgotten is the skirtini which is a garter belt with a sexy, flirty skirt that is usually sheer or stretch lace and is hardly a skirt at all but certainly resembles one.

How to Buy Lingerie for your Sexy Body!

How to buy lingerie for your body is a guide on what to look for when purchasing sexy lingerie. Women need some help when it comes to how to buy sexy lingerie for their body unless they are a perfect 36-24-36 with a tan; no body fat and an unlimited budget then go directly to as we are waiting for you.

The purpose of lingerie is arguably to make a woman look or appear sexier than she already is, give her self confidence being "nearly" naked and promote healthy body images. Now while that is an ambitious agenda the truth is done correctly buying the right lingerie can go a long ways toward accomplishing these things. Unfortunately many women and men do not go into buying lingerie in this manner. It is often "I need something sexy for my vacation". While there is absolutely nothing wrong with this approach, it doesn't address what will make her look her best, project her sexuality in an assertive, positive manner and arouse both her and her mate. Often men are worse in that they simply want their girlfriend to wear some hideous outfit that simply exposes her breasts, butt and sexual region with no concern as to how she feels about herself parading around in a "clown" outfit disguised as sexy lingerie. It isn't sexy if it doesn't allow the wearer to feel sexy. There isn't much sexy about a woman who is embarrassed, ashamed or feeling ridiculous in a garment.

Buying lingerie for your body requires knowing your body and what you do and don't like about it. Ask yourself "what do I love, like and hate about my body". Once you answer that question for yourself or your mate then let’s get to the next step. Some women don't love their ______________(fill in the blank) for one reason or another. Some will say stomach, thighs, nose, weight or any other of a number of body parts that they don't like. Other will say they love their breasts, stomach, legs, neck or another set of parts and you should buy garments to accentuate the good parts and avoid garments that show off the bad parts. No, this is not rocket science but amazingly many women and even more men ignore the basic rule.

As an example if you love your breasts either because they are big, perfectly formed, and perky or just perfect that consider a corset. Corsets push your breasts up and out and draw eyes towards them while slimming your waist giving you that hour glass figure. If you are a plus size gal then don't by all means purchase flowing, blousy, tent like lingerie. Wear structured, snug fitting garments like corsets and body stockings. Wear a skimpy skirt that defines your waist and stockings that elongate your torso. Consider wearing high heels that give you height and proportionality.

Color is an essential consideration as well as often times your favorite color may not be your friend in your underwear. Black is your friend and white is your enemy. The exception to this is of course dark skinned women and women with a good tan. The color is not good because your skin tones will look so hot in white while a pasty, fluorescent white skin with a white teddy will look washed out.

Fit is also very important but lingerie is not meant to be worn all day and is supposed to be body flattering. So snug, not tight is great. The reason so much lingerie is made with spandex or cut smaller is that you are going to be showing off the goods, honey. While there is loose, flowing, comfortable lingerie we aren't concerned with it here and may or may not fall into the granny panty category and that is not sexy. Don't fall prey to the idea that to be sexy you must be skimpy like a pair of g-string or thong panties. In fact I think boy shorts are the sexiest panty made as they hug a woman's figure, show off every part of a woman's lower region to its best advantage and is very comfortable to boot. Truth is the healthier and happier a woman is the sexier she is!

Sexy Lingerie Articles for your reading enjoyment

We offer sexy lingerie articles for your reading pleasure and education. Who reads sexy lingerie articles you ask and the answer is anyone who enjoys sexy lingerie or better put anyone who has a pulse. While most people buy lingerie don't give much thought to the lingerie or who makes it or how you can buy lingerie that best suits your body type, others want all the information they can get.

We offer sexy lingerie articles on so many subjects you won't have the time to read them all. Some of the articles are suggested by customers who enjoy burlesque, thus the article Burlesque - The Art of the Strip Tease . Burlesque and lingerie are intertwined due in part to the naughty stripping that some performers engage in during the act but Burlesque is so much more. Actually anything naughty has something to do with lingerie or so it seems.

Often time men come into our boutique or ask us online to help them shop for their wives and girlfriends. In partial response to that we wrote the article Men Buying Lingerie - The Do's and Don'ts Part I . While men aren't dumb and they know what they like to see their girlfriends wear in the bedroom they don't always know their sizes or styles and a little professional help is always a plus. Buying lingerie is one of those things that people, particularly women think is easy as after all they are women and they wear lingerie so what is the big deal? No big deal but often a woman has certain "problem areas" or special requests that need to be addressed so that special occasion goes off without a hitch.

Speaking of special occasion’s lingerie is a special occasion item without a doubt. Who can think of a honeymoon, Valentine's Day, anniversary or romantic weekend or vacation and not think of lingerie? That is right, lingerie is a universal item forever associated with romance and sex! Perhaps that is one of the reasons we wrote What Lingerie do I take on my Special Vacation? . Couples go on vacation for a lot of reasons but one of them is certainly to be alone, enjoy each others company, see sights, enjoy great food and have sex! Who can argue with that? So it is a great idea to be prepared for the evening, the romance and oh yeah, the great sex!

But what if you can't get away and you need to get away? Well there is always the bedroom with the doors closed and the kids heavily sedated. Just kidding about the closed doors. Setting the Mood for a Romantic Evening was written for every couple to get away at home or in a hotel room or a public park if that is your thing. We know what sexy lingerie is used for and that is often to initiate romance, to set the mood and to send that unmistakable message "take me"! So we write about everything we and our staff can think of that has to do with, about and surrounding lingerie.

How about going shopping with your lover, husband or boy friend as a means of starting the romance off in a different way? Sexy Lingerie Shopping with a Lover or Husband is a guide on how to enjoy shopping on a whole new dimension. Shopping is just shopping until you are buying or browsing in a sexy lingerie store with the partner who is going to spend the evening with you and hopefully enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Don't forget that we also write about another world of romance and that is our Sex Toy Articles that explore all of the aspects of the source of so much happiness for couples. Sex toys are a subject many don't know much about but would like to learn.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Plus Size Lingerie Models are the Sexiest!

While many may disagree I think plus size models are the sexiest models you can find and the reasons have to do a lot with how healthy they look. Plus size models are the sexiest models because they look normal, full of life and vibrant in comparison many fashion models look emaciated, hungry, angry and unhappy. I realize the prevailing opinion is that fashion models are among the sexiest women on the planet but when you look at plus size models they simply appear much healthier. Now you may think I am putting this picture here to make my point and of course you are correct. Emaciated, unhappy and rather forlorn, don't you agree. Contast that with any one of the plus size models whose photos appear here. Would the fashion model appear happier if she had a smile on her face? Sure she would but that doesn't change the fact that she simply looks unhealthy, sick and sad. Perhaps she is coached to look that way as it is supposed to look sexier but to me it simply looks tragic.

This gorgeous woman n the other hand is "normal" except for the fact that she is well, gorgeous! Sorry I shouldn't use the term gorgeous twice in the same sentence! Plus size models enjoy the label of being sexiest models as they are real, genuine and not suffering from anorexia or bulemia or any other eating disorder thus they have real breasts, hips, thighs and stomachs and yes they are size 14, 16 and up. Or are they? There is a definite controversy over whether plus size models are really plus size. The answer in my opinion is not always. So what? Things don't usually change overnight and it has taken the media, manufacturers and the fashion world a good long while to change and they are still in the process of changing but change they must. We all know that plus sized women are underserved in the clothing and particularly lingerie business. Perceptions need to change and the pace is too slow for most plus size women. But does seeing that not all plus size women are size 14, 16 or above serve the cause. I think not as there needs to be a combination of patience and concerted demands for continued change.

A recent controversy has added a new dimension to the plus size model acceptance issue involving Lane Bryant, a plus size clothing and underwear retailer who wanted to broadcast an ad during American Idol and Dancing with the Stars featuring plus size models who happen to have big breasts. Is it that women with big breasts are the problem, not that they are plus size? Plenty of women have big breasts and of course many models and celebrities have enhanced breasts as well. It appears plus size models get it coming and going and now the size of a models breasts have to be reviewed before an ad can make it in prime time. Is this for real?

Monday, October 19, 2009

Why Should Women Wear Sexy Lingerie?

Why should women wear sexy lingerie in the bedroom or before sexual activity? What is the point of wearing sexy lingerie when the lingerie ends up getting removed shortly after putting it on? Does sexy lingerie really serve any purpose other than helping make a woman a sex object?

I was reading a blog the other day from a feminist and it stood for the position that sexy lingerie is a bad thing and objectifies women as sexual objects and is dehumanizing to her. At first I was amused that these feminists are so off base that they don't get it. How wrong can a feminist be to dismiss the value of sexy lingerie to women but on the other hand it was indeed a woman writing the blog post. After reading it again I decided I still disagreed with the post but thought it was a good starting point for presenting the opposite side of the argument. It is my belief as a woman that it is up to the individual woman as to what she wears or doesn't wear in bed, before sex or to work. This tyranny of the feminist left is over reaching as it presumes to tell women what they can't and cannot wear. Why in the world would the fringe left or the wacky right presume to think they can dictate what anyone wears? But this ignores the question as to whether the wearing of "sexy" lingerie is a means of men objectifying a woman?

Certainly we can agree that sexy lingerie does expose a woman's body in a very suggestive and sexual way. Much of the sexy lingerie is sheer, transparent, short, skimpy and naughty. Thus a simplistic approach to the wearing of sexy lingerie would argue that that in itself is making a sexual object out of a woman's body. What this argument ignores is a woman's free will to present herself as a sexual being which she is regardless of what she or others think. All of us are sexual beings and there is nothing we can do about that. How we project ourselves is entirely up to us. The argument that it is "men's attempt to make women a sex object" is assuming so much simply for the sake of many feminist's agendas to make men responsible for all that is wrong with the world. In this case men are innocent of anything other than enjoying women's sexuality and there is nothing wrong with that.

The reason women wear sexy lingerie is as varied as there are women. No doubt some women wear sexy lingerie to please the man in their lives. If this is not voluntary then of course it is inappropriate at best. Forcing a woman to wear any garment is wrong but on the other hand anything a couple does in the privacy of their own home that is not illegal is perfectly appropriate. Wearing sexy lingerie is a means to an end that apparently many women enjoy but there is no doubt that men's desire is a component. Trying to insert yourself into the decisions of adults in the bedroom is simply a waste of time regardless of the reason. Free will is free will and to suggest that women only wear lingerie for the sake of men is patently false.

Feminism has done much for women although what it has done in the bedroom is difficult to ascertain. Sexy lingerie is a garment that is often a prelude to sex and in many ways much of what goes on in a bedroom is for the sake of sexual gratification. Is it mistreating a woman if he climaxes and she doesn't? Is spanking her bottom gently or telling her to do something like "faster", "harder" or "don't stop" dominating her? Where do we stop if we get on the slippery slope of telling women or men for that matter what is and is not appropriate?

I suggest we stay out of the bedroom altogether with our political agenda's and religious beliefs if the parties in the bedroom don't ask for the direction. It is legitimate for feminists to express their opinions but like politics and religion it is best to keep a hands off position on the subject of sex which is after all a major component of buying, wearing and introducing lingerie into the bedroom. I suggest most women dismiss the arguments that wearing sexy lingerie objectifies a woman as perhaps it does, perhaps it doesn't but who really cares? In some ways it is like preaching to people that chocolate is bad for you because it has sugar, caffeine and causes one to gain weight. It clearly appears that this is the case but it is also delicious, satisfying and millions are not about to stop eating it for those reasons. Sex and sexy lingerie and sexual enjoyment and men and women are so intertwined that virtually nothing is going to stop her from wearing it and he from wanting to see her wearing it.

So why should a woman wear sexy lingerie? One obvious reason is she wants to be appealing to her boyfriend, husband or lover! Simply put sexy lingerie puts an uncomplicated image in front of her lover that she wants to be romantic, have sex or otherwise engage in sexual play. Wearing sexy lingerie is similar to a football player putting on his uniform. When he does he and others around him know that a football game is about to occur. Does he do this in a vacuum? Does he do this in the men's room at his wife's office? No, wearing sexy lingerie is done in a certain context, often at a certain time, although not necessarily. Wearing a sheer babydoll is unmistakably a suggestion that she wants sex, fondling, forplay or some other sexual activity. Sure she could strip naked and say F@#$ me! Or she could simply lay down on the floor, spread her legs and point to herself but that is kind of crude. Wearing sexy lingerie is an accepted means of saying without speaking.

A woman should wear sexy lingerie because it, like putting on business attire is a means of showing her co-workers, boss and family that it is now time for work, not play. Wearing sexy lingerie can put a woman in the mood because she likely associates sexy lingerie with pleasure, arousal, adult activity and sex. These associations are very powerful just as telling your 9 year old to put his swimming trunks on! As he is racing into the bedroom to get them on is he thinking he is going to the dentist, church or school? No, he is thinking how much he loves going to the swimming pool in part because he recalls instinctively how much fun he has had at the pool. Associations are part of our lives and we know it.

Finally and perhaps most importantly a woman should wear sexy lingerie if she loves the way she looks and feels when she put sexy lingerie on. Wearing a new outfit, new shoes, or jewelry can make a woman or man feel good about themselves. Simple things like "you smell good" or "is that a new tie" or simply "have you lost weight" are things that can make our day. If wearing sexy and revealing lingerie makes you feel good or brings back good, even great memories then that is a great reason why women should wear sexy lingerie.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Is Lingerie an Aphrodisiac?

Is lingerie an aphrodisiac or what is the lure for women to wear sexy lingerie? Lingerie is an effective aphrodisiac but we don't usually look on it as a love potion or something that draws a man towards a woman. So why do women wear lingerie and does it have an effect on a man's libido?

Lingerie is, after all only clothing that women wear although it may be inappropriate for wearing in public, particularly in cold weather. Lingerie is considered by many to be superfluous, unnecessary and even a complete waste of money. So why do women continue to purchase it, wear it and perhaps even believe that it increases their sex appeal or sexual desirability? The lingerie business is a multi million dollar business and it is so routine and pervasive you can find it in virtually every mall in the country in the form of a Victoria's Secret or many department stores, not to mention the proliferation of sexy lingerie sites on the internet.

Is lingerie a continuation of the attempt by men to turn women into sex objects by making them into men's sexual fantasies? To some degree this is likely as wearing sexy lingerie does encourage men to look at women as objects of sexual desire. While true to some degree what is wrong with that? Do women solely wear sexy lingerie for the purposes of men's sexual fantasies? In part yes but this ignores how sexy lingerie makes women feel. Certainly some women wear sexy lingerie solely for the men in their lives while they get no benefits or enjoyment from the practice. On the other hand it is naive and unlikely that all women wear lingerie solely for men.

So does lingerie act as an aphrodisiac? The answer is yes and the reason may at least in part be that men are such visual creatures. Men overwhelmingly enjoy pornography as compared to women. Men enjoy seeing images of women naked or in videos or even in person in the form of strip shows and magazines. Women don't seem to be nearly as interested in images of men naked and while they do seem to enjoy male strip shows they do not engage in this form of entertainment nearly as much.

Men are at the center of women wearing sexy lingerie as they express the desire to see women in various states of undress as sexy lingerie suggests. Men's interest in sexy lingerie has little to do with the lingerie as it is really about the suggestive nature of sexy lingerie and what it represents. Sexy lingerie is not particularly important but the woman wearing the lingerie is the primary factor. Sexy lingerie suggests that a woman is ready, willing and able to engage in sexual activity. Sexy lingerie clearly sends a message to men that she desires sexual activity in a clear, unambiguous manner which is so important in today's society. This is not to be confused with men using the defense for such sexually related crimes that a woman is asking for it when she wears sexually suggestive clothing as short skirts or suggestive outer wear. Just as that defense is routinely ignored, it is not likely that a woman would argue that she was raped when she was in a situation where she was wearing overtly sexually suggestive lingerie in a bedroom with her husband or boyfriend. Nevertheless when a woman says no, regardless of her state of dress or undress a man's failure to cease and desist is still rape in virtually all jurisdictions and rightly so.

While women wear sexy lingerie for a myriad of reasons one of them is certainly to suggest or encourage sexual activity. One cannot rationally argue that a woman wearing sexy lingerie is not an aphrodisiac but that does not give a man license to do what he please with her. A woman can put on the sexiest lingerie available and even become totally naked and that does not allow a man to force her to do whatever he wants. A woman retains the right to change her mind at any time, for any reason. This is not unfair but totally fair and reasonable. This does not alter the fact that wearing sexy lingerie is an aphrodisiac as it encourages, suggests and promotes sexual intimacy between a man and a woman. In virtually all cases wearing this lingerie is the first step in encouraging sexual relations and is in the minds of women and men when sexy lingerie is purchased.

Pasties are for Bad Girls

Pasties are for bad girls, sexy girls and just girls. Bad girls love pasties as they are nipple covers that girls use in a variety of ways when wearing a bra is not good enough or simply not possible. Pasties are for girls who want to show off their boobs but not their nipples. While pasties have been around for a long, long time the latest incarnation is even sexier.

Pasties are an old school nipple cover that often had tassels that dancers swung around suggestively with the audience entranced as the dancer even made the tassels swing in opposite directions. That was then as burlesque performers and nude dancers performed in front of captivated audience that enjoyed the naked and near naked performers with fans and slow, suggestive dances that showed only portions of the female anatomy.

Today pasties still have tassels but more and more they are adhesive pasties with designs of skull and cross bones, marijuana leaves, lips, x's and many, many more. Pasties are worn by strippers, to be sure but also by girly girls who get off on exposing their breasts but not their nipples. Coincidentally or not many local ordinances do not consider a woman to be naked or topless unless her nipples are exposed. So she is nearly nude but not in violation of any local ordinances. The same is true for many topless dancers.

The explosion in popularity of these pasties is not only escaping any local popo's but simply because they are so cool looking, colorful and naughty. In the past wearnig a skimpy bra top with a bikini panty was required beach wear. That is passe' as now wearing pasties with a skimpy g-string panty is the least amount of beach wear a girl can wear without being totally naked. Pasties are certain to draw attention to a girls chest and many girls are just fine with that. Many of the pasties actually offer more coverage than some bra tops thus it is the idea more than the reality that draws girls to these pasties.

Sexy Lingerie, Stripper Wear and Shapewear

Sexy lingerie, stripper wear and shapewear are some of the product we offer. Our newest partners provide you the sexy lingerie, stripper wear and shapewear you have been asking for we are so pleased to present it to you. Our partners are committed to giving our customers the best quality lingerie and clubwear available. We are wanting to give you the best we can find throughout the world in our quest for the sexiest lingerie and clothing we can find.

Vedette shapewear is our newest shapewear provider as we have been asked repeatedly to carry shapewear and shapers. We know that part of being confident and self assured is looking as good as you can look and that is where shapewear is needed. Today's form fitting, flimsy and sexy styles often lead girls to want shapewear that gives them a flattering look and feel. Our sexy shapwewear is just what you are looking for in shapers, girdles and panty shapers.

Shapers and Shapewear for Sexy Girls

Shapers and shapewear are terms used to describe body shapers and girdles that shape, lift and define sexy girls bodies. Sexy girls love wearing shapers and shapewear as they help them look sexy and shapely. These undergarments are meant to shape a girls form making it look great under dresses, gowns and anything she chooses to wear. When you are looking for shapewear you might want to keep a couple of things in mind. Shapers are made for a particular purpose and thus you need to buy that shaper to deal with a single or more than one problem area. Shapers range from shaper panties to full length shapers that extend from the bust or below the bust to the upper ankles. Shapers rarely are made to shape the bust as you must wear a bra in addition to the shaper. Women accumulate fat in many areas but mainly in the stomach area, lower stomach, buttocks and thigh areas. Choosing the right shaper for you is simply a matter of what you are wearing and what area or areas you would like shaped. Many women are purchasing the mid calf body shaper which addresses problem areas from under the bust through the abdominal and buttocks area. Unfortunately shapers don't cause you to lose weight only to shape and sculpt the area for a short period of time.

Once you have decided what area or areas need shaping then the next decision you will need to make is the amount of compression you will require. Compression is simply the pressure you want the garment to assert against your body to hold it in. A general rule is you will need medium compression for minor problem areas. If you have a minimal need for shaping or compression then the medium compression will do the job. If you feel you need a good amount of compression then a strong compression garment will be required. Strong compression is generally the greatest compression you can purchase and the garment is intended to hold the area in and exert stronger compression than a medium compression garment. The febrics or materials used to provide the compression are lycra spandex, nylon or even latex rubber. The stronger compression garments generally require latex rubber to provide the least amount of stretch while spandex is going to provide the least amount of compression. An example of the strongest compression with latex rubber is the latex waist cincher which is an excellent shaper girdle to provide the most compression available.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Vibrating Panties

Vibrating panties are panties that vibrate a woman in that special place. Vibrating panties are panties that are supposed to send girls into orgasmic convulsions in private but more importantly in public. I assume by now that everyone knows about personal vibrators and millions of women use them occassionally, frequently to daily, depending on their own particular needs and desires. While vibrators have been around for many, many years it is only recently that vibrating panties have been marketed to women as well as the men in their lives.

So what women want to slip on a pair of panties with a vibrator in them and then go for a walk in the park or better yet, at the mall or other public place. The answer may surprise you as many women are wearing them right now and you would never know. This is working on a couple of different levels as vibrating panties are worn under a woman's clothing, skirt, jeans or whatever. Thus you would not normally know she was wearing a pair of vibrating panties unless she told you. Or would you? The panties can be thongs, g-strings and full bottom panties or briefs. Some have bullet vibrators that rests against her clitoris while others are remote control vibrating panties that have a controller that works up to 30 feet away. So what is the appeal?

Well first of all the obvious reason is that many women enjoy having an orgasm in bed, in the shower, kitchen, restaurant and yes, even at the mall. Unlike men, women can reach orgasm without manual stimulation and the vibrator pressing against her clitoris is the easiest method of reaching that orgasm. Couples are purchasing these remote control vibrating panties as a means of enhancing their sex life. It can be great fun to have your girlfriend or wife slip on a pair of these panties and off you go to eat, shop or stroll. The man has the control- they like that don't they? He decides when to turn on the vibrations and how powerful the vibrations shall be. When she least expects is he turns her on as well as the power and of course she has to deal with these awesome vibrations at the most unexpected times and places. Talk about being spontaneous!

Clearly these vibrating panties are not for the shy or weak of heart but many couples find this good, clean adult fun and why not? The next time you see a gorgeous woman at the mall jump for joy she may be wearing a vibrating panty and the man in her life may be aroused as well as enjoying every minute of it.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Lingerie Articles & Squidoo Lenses

Lingerie articles, sexy lingerie articles, squidoo lenses about lingerie from Flirty Lingerie. We offer articles about lingerie, lingerie models as well as squidoo lenses about everything we sell and great information and tips about how to and where to but the sexiest lingerie and clubwear.

The owners and staff of Flirty Lingerie are constantly adding articles about everything we sell and everything related to what we sell to inform our customers and the web about our expertise. We have selected some of the best of these articles here for you to access at your leisure. If you have any questions about these or any other subjects, please let us know.

Lingerie Articles:

Lingerie Articles : As our site is primarily about lingerie we have selected some of the many articles we have written over the years about the subject near and dear to our hearts and minds.

Sexy Lingerie: Wear it to the Boardroom, Movies or Clubs Lingerie is not only worn in the bedroom as it is sexy clubwear, great for the clubs and movies or out on a special date with your lover or husband or both. Wear sexy corsets, camisoles, sexy bras and sheer tops out of the bedroom.

Men Buying Lingerie - The Do's and Dont's Part 1 Men love lingerie and have since forever. The problem can be that they don't really know how to buy sexy lingerie for the woman in their lives. Our guide gives you some points and tips on how to buy the lovely woman in your life sexy lingerie.

Sexy Panties: G-Strings, Thongs, Boy Shorts and Crotchless Panties Women love sexy panties, panties and sexy underwear and so do the men in their lives. We do a run down on the latest sexy panties so you have a good idea what to look for and what to avoid in the wonderful world of sexy panties.

Sexy Lingerie - How does it make a woman feel? Part 1 Wearing sexy lingerie makes a woman look and feel desirable, sexy and sensuous. The way sexy lingerie makes a woman feel is one of the best reasons for a woman to buy and wear sexy lingerie.

Want to throw a Lingerie Party? Are you going to throw a theme party? Is the theme sexy lingerie? If so you may want to take a read of this article as we explore the fun of throwing a lingerie party for the girls or girls and guys.

How to take sexy lingerie pictures? Your lover looks hot and sexy in her underwear and you want to take her picture. Assuming she agrees then you need to read our tips and suggestions on how to make her look adorable and sexy. Avoid making her look vulgar and unhappy as taking a woman's picture in her panties takes more planning and skill than you may imagine.

Sexy Lingerie - How to care for your Lingerie?

Sexy Bras - Sexy Lingerie There are bras and then there are sexy bras and you will love the way you look and feel in a sexy bra.

Squidoo Lenses:

Sexy Plus Size Lingerie Buying sexy lingerie in plus size is fun as you are full figured and curvaceous, voluptuous even. Lingerie looks so hot on a woman with curves in all the right places. Show off those sizzling curves and heavenly hips on a woman who is just a Goddess!

Sexy Lingerie - An Erotic Honeymoon Adventure Getting married? You may need to wear the sexiest honeymoon lingerie you can imagine as these memories will last a lifetime.

Garter Belts are Sexy Lingerie The title should be garter belts are the sexiest lingerie in the world. Yes I said sexiest without a doubt.

Club Wear Club wear is clothing with a very sexy attitude. Don't wear it if you are afraid of being a sexy doll!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Latex Lingerie and Clothing

Have you ever worn sexy latex lingerie or latex clothing? Latex is rubber and the sales of latex clothing and latex lingerie is exploding. Statistically the answer to the question of whether you have worn latex, is less than 1% of women as most women don't even know what latex clothing is and how does it feel or look. Latex lingerie is exotic lingerie as it is unusual and even one of a kind. Sexy latex panties are often worn in a fetish setting although I suppose a woman could wear them under her skirt or jeans but these panties beg to be seen. Then there is a sexy peek a boo latex bra that screams sexy if that is your cup of tea.

Latex lingerie is lingerie that is at home at a Fetish Ball or swingers convention as it is intended to tittalate or arouse your sensations and libido. Latex leggings are leggings with a very sizeable plus.

So where does a woman wear these sexy pieces of lingerie and clubwear? The answer is clubs, dancing, Fetish Balls, Costume Parties and many many more. A few things about latex wear is it is Fetish Wear so be prepared for the looks, stares and comments on where did you get that and where can I get it? First remember that latex does not breathe. Unlike your favorite cotton blouse or wool sweater latex is certainly not a natural fabric so it will not breathe thus you will perspire as there is nowhere for the moisture to go. Thus when you take the latex off be aware that the moisture will still be there. If you are in a warm environment then you will be a lot warmer, in a hot environment, well you get the idea.

Secondly latex requires rubba wear liquid to shine it up as you see in these images. The clothing and lingerie look like a pasty white/grey when you do not use the shine fluid. Once applied the garment will shine as you like. Also keep in mind that latex is another word for rubber so when putting it on it is a good idea to use baby powder to alow it to slip on easily. Also the latex can be very thin so we advise wearing lingerie gloves to protect the latex from your long finger nails that can tear the latex, making it unwearable.

So what do you wear with your sexy latex mini skirt ?
Pairing it with a latex bra or latex crop top is a great idea. One option is to use liquid latex and create a one of a kind top in black and red or any other color combination you desire. Whatever you wear with it you will surely be the center of attention and that is what you wanted, right?

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Lingerie Football joke!

We're all very familiar with the NFL or National Football League-- with teams ranging from the Dallas Cowboys (Flirty Lingerie favorite) to the New England Patriots (Tom Brady, oh my!) But until recently I can't say that I knew the LFL or Lingerie Football League existed outside of every male fantasy.

It looks as though the LFL season will kick-off this September with Fox Mobile securing exclusve rights to stream directly to viewers mobile phones with interviews, behind-the scenes footage and video clips. Ten franchises (including the Dallas Desire, San Diego Seduction, Denver Dream, Chicago Bliss, etc.)will compete in games throughout a 20-week season.

Some say the LFL is simply objectivication of women, but my initial thoughts are that the uniforms are too cute...let's be honest, what do you think lingerie purveyors would say!? I'm not sure how well the "sport" may do in terms of ratings/fans/following-- what do you think? Guys, would you or your friends sit down and watch? Girls, what are your thoughts? I know there are plenty who are thinking to themselves right now, "Where can I tryout?!"

Apparently Foxers is the official uniform designer for the League but Flirty Lingerie is brainstorming new team uniforms as we speak. Stay tuned...we might be hooked!

--Lauren R. @ Flirty Lingerie!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Bettie Page - Iconic figure dead at age 85

Bettie Page, model who helped define lingerie and nude modeling for a generation has died. Bettie Page was instantly recognizable with her page boy hair cut, black hair and innocent fact with a smoking hot body and the ability to model nude or near nude and not appear dirty or scandalous.

Her photos included a centerfold in the January 1955 issue of then-fledgling Playboy magazine, as well as controversial sadomasochistic poses. The latter helped contribute to her mysterious disappearance from the public eye, which lasted decades and included years during which she battled mental illness and became a born-again Christian.

The 21st century indeed had people remembering her just as she was. She became the subject of songs, biographies, Web sites, comic books, movies and documentaries. A new generation of fans bought thousands of copies of her photos, and some feminists hailed her as a pioneer of women's liberation. Gretchen Mol portrayed her in 2005's "The Notorious Bettie Page" and Paige Richards had the role in 2004's "Bettie Page: Dark Angel." Page herself took part in the 1998 documentary "Betty Page: Pinup Queen."

Her career began in October 1950 when she took a break from her job as a secretary in New York office for a walk along the beach at Coney Island. An amateur photographer named Jerry Tibbs admired the 27-year-old's firm, curvy body and asked her to pose.

Looking back on the career that followed, she told Playboy in 1998, "I never thought it was shameful. I felt normal. It's just that it was much better than pounding a typewriter eight hours a day, which gets monotonous." Nudity didn't bother her, she said, explaining: "God approves of nudity. Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, they were naked as jaybirds."

In 1951, Page fell under the influence of a photographer and his sister who specialized in S&M. They cut her hair into the dark bangs that became her signature and posed her in spiked heels and little else. She was photographed with a whip in her hand, and in one session she was spread-eagled between two trees, her feet dangling. "I thought my arms and legs would come out of their sockets," she said later. Moralists denounced the photos as perversion, and Sen. Estes Kefauver of Tennessee, Page's home state, launched a congressional investigation.

Page quickly retreated from public view, later saying she was hounded by federal agents who waved her nude photos in her face. She also said she believed that, at age 34, her days as "the girl with the perfect figure" were nearly over. She moved to Florida in 1957 and married a much younger man, as an early marriage to her high school sweetheart had ended in divorce. Her second marriage also failed, as did a third, and she suffered a nervous breakdown.

Life grew more turbulent in later years

In 1959, she was lying on a sea wall in Key West when she saw a church with a white neon cross on top. She walked inside and became a born-again Christian. After attending Bible school, she wanted to serve as a missionary but was turned down because she had been divorced. Instead, she worked full-time for evangelist Billy Graham's ministry.

A move to Southern California in 1979 brought more troubles. She was arrested after an altercation with her landlady, and doctors who examined her determined she had acute schizophrenia. She spent 20 months in a state mental hospital in San Bernardino. A fight with another landlord resulted in her arrest, but she was found not guilty because of insanity. She was placed under state supervision for eight years.

"She had a very turbulent life," Todd Mueller, a family friend and autograph seller, told The Associated Press on Thursday. "She had a temper to her." Mueller said he first met Page after tracking her down in the 1990s and persuaded her to do an autograph signing event.

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What does your Lingerie say about you?

The lingerie you wear says a lot about you. But what exactly does the lingerie you wear say about you as a person? What does your lingerie say about you gives you tips and suggestions on finding and wearing sexy lingerie so you can be hot and sexy. The type of lingerie you wear may say something about your relationships and how you feel about yourself. Sexy lingerie is more than clothing as lingerie expresses your sexuality as well as your taste, sense of style and limits.

So what does the lingerie you are wearing say about you? Many women wear cute and flirty lingerie with polka dots, bows, horizontal or vertical lines. It says they are young, enjoy wearing matching bras and panties and have a keen sense of color. Colorful lingerie is youth oriented, great for teens and young women who aren't concerned about their lingerie showing through their clothing. Can you imagine a 50 year old woman wearing this lingerie? Of course not as we associate the bold colors of pink, blue, red and other primary colors as being worn by young women and girls.

Boyshorts are definitely not for boys as the cut belongs on a woman's body and while these are full cut panties they fit well on a young girls body but older women love them too. Full coverage can be sexy especially when they are body hugging, slimming and cover all of a woman's torso that aren't covered by thongs,g-strings and even bikini's.

Sheer panties are definitely for the more mature woman as they evoke images of Betty Page, the 40's and 50's and steamy lingerie. Sheer panties are see through but the sheer, stretch mesh hugs her body and lends a shadow on her body making her sexy and sensuous. Sheer lingerie tends to be lingerie for an older woman but don't assume that means women of any age can't or don't wear them. Sheer lingerie is a classic look and women of all ages can pull off wearing it without a problem.

Lingerie that covers a woman's body but hides nothing is all about sexy lingerie. Sheer lingerie manages to give full coverage and yet cover nothing at all is naughty and conservative, if that is possible. Sheer lingerie adds a little mystery to a woman's body, hides many flaws but draws ones eyes towards it.

Corsets are an article of lingerie that is worn by a woman who doesn't hesitate to express her sexuality or her breasts. Corsets are meant to draw in the waist for that hour glass figure and push her breasts up and out with spill out cleavage. A woman wearing a corset is going to look very feminine and what ever her breast size is, it will appear larger and fuller. Long stares and looks will inevitably follow as men and women will be attracted to this timeless look and who can resist looking at a woman's breast that are fully covered but emphasized in such a manner?

How about a woman who wears flashy patterns, colors and bold prints under her clothes? She is flirtatious, seeking and enjoying attention and makes a fashion statement with her panties and bras. These animal prints, geometric designs and hot colors make her stand out in a crowd if there is a crowd in her bedroom or under her skirt? These colors and designs are reserved for women who enjoy the attention wearing sexy lingerie gives them.

Women who wear the skimpiest of g-strings and thongs are sexy and confident and they have to be as these sexy panties are the opposite of full coverage. They cover the tiniest areas of a woman's body and she has nowhere to hide. There is not a possibility of a vpl or visible panty line. Men love them as they don't hide anything from view and women love them because they feel like they aren't wearing any panties at all. Wearing these sexy panties also means you are current on lingerie fashions as these are the panties young women are wearing under the latest fashions, skirts, dresses and jeans. They are the next thing to not wearing any panties at all. That trend will likely continue as todays fashions are skimpier, slinkier and less forgiving than ever before. Younger and younger women are wearing less and less in terms of panties and sexy clothing and that is a good thing.

The World's Sexiest Lingerie Models

Choosing the worlds sexiest Lingerie models isn't easy as they must do more than model lingerie. The world's sexiest lingerie models must possess the bodies to make the lingerie look sexy. Lingerie models are sexy women and while they may model swim suits, pose nude or even model sexy shoes, in our hearts they are at their best being lingerie models. In no particular order we present some of the sexiest women in the world doing what they do best, modeling sexy lingerie.

Unlike runway models who are often stick thin, flat chested and waifish in appearance, many of these models are busty, curvy and gorgeous. Famous in their own rights, lingerie models may model lingerie lines from throughout the world and since they are often in their bras and panties they must have that flawless body as the camera does not lie.

Adriana Lima:

Adriana Francesca Lima is a Brazilian supermodel. Lima is best known for her modeling work with Victoria's Secret and Maybelline. Lima is often cited by popular media as one of the world's sexiest women.

Gemma Atkinson

Gemma Atkinson is one of a long list of lingerie models who have had breast enhancements. In early 2006, Atkinson underwent breast enlargement surgery, which took her bra size to a 34D. She said in an interview that she lost weight due to a fitness regime but her bust slowly declined. The surgery then gave them the original shape they once were."

Lucy Pinder

Lucy Pinder was spotted by freelance photographer Lee Earle while sunbathing on Bournemouth beach in the summer of 2003; as a result of the photographs taken that day, she signed a professional modeling contract with The Daily Star.

Joanna Krupa:

Joanna Krupa is a Model from Poland.

Laetitia Marie Laure Casta

Laetitia Marie Laure Casta is a French supermodel and actress.Casta was the official face of L'Oréal, Dior, and Chanel. Laetitia Casta has appeared on over 100 magazine covers and has been credited, along with Tyra Banks, and a few others, with bringing back the notion of the voluptuous models.

Friday, January 2, 2009

Sexy Lingerie for Valentine's Day

Sexy Lingerie for Valentine's Day is the perfect gift for the lover in your life. Sexy lingerie is a perfect Valentine's Day gift that says I want to Love you in a way no other gift can. Unmistakably the most erotic gift a man can give a woman, lingerie is the universal symbol for Love and perhaps even Lust.

OK you are still considering candy, a card, maybe dinner and hopefully diamonds for the woman in your life. Great, but don't neglect to get her some sexy lingerie. You will be glad you did and she will get the message. It is a mistake not to buy her lingerie! A woman expects a gift of intimacy for Valentine's Day and chocolate is not intimate. Intimate does not need to mean trashy, slutty lingerie. It does mean something that a man gives a woman he loves in a romantic way. Shoes, clothing and sex toys can all qualify for an intimate gift but Lingerie may be the most romantic.

So who was this Saint Valentine and why was a holiday named after him? Well like a lot of historical figures there is some mystery as to who Saint Valentine was. One version claims he was a priest that defied a Roman emperor who had outlawed marriage by secretly marrying young men and women. That Saint Valentine was put to death for violating the Emperor's dictate.

Buy her a sexy chemise that qualifies as romantic but not over the top sexy. Chemises are lingerie many women want to wear to bed as they are subtlely sexy but refined as they don't show all the goods but she can sleep comfortably in one.

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.

-Elizabeth Barrett Browning

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way
than this: where I does not exist nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

-Pablo Neruda, "Love Sonnet XVII"

Valentine's Day or rather Valentine's Night is for lover's and you better be prepared to play the expectations game. Love, romance or whatever you call what goes on between a man and a woman or a man and a man, woman and a woman is a feeling and feelings are extremely important. If you are in a relationship you better know what is expected of you, or else! Romance has rules and if you break the rules someone is going to get hurt. Be it a card, dinner, candy, balloons or jewelry Valentine's Day is the day to express your feelings about her or him. Money can be, but usually isn't the point. Sure an expensive diamond necklace is a great expression of your feelings for your wife. But so is a date at a local Bistro with a glass of wine. Something from the heart always works. A billboard that says I Love You, Katie! across the street from where she works will be a lifetime memory, in part because her friends and co-workers can see it. How about cooking a real meal for a change and you do the dishes! How about a gift of a massage for the both of you?

But what about lingerie? She is worth lingerie and the message you send when you say I bought you this sexy lingerie is unmistakable. Romance, yes! Subtle, not so much! Just be sure you make it as memorable as you can. Don't just give her lingerie with the expectation of getting lucky. Be romantic, make the day, the entire day memorable. Hide a note in her purse that is endearing, romantic and puts her in the mood for romance, not just sex! Make her feel special just because she is special. Don't forget that there are other women in the office who will get a dozen roses or comment on where their husbands are taking them to dinner. Valentine's Day is a day to express your romantic feelings about her, so express! After this evening she should remember why she chose to spend time with you, not wonder who is that putz on the couch watching reruns!