Sexy Corsets - Clubwear, Bedroom, Parties for Sexy Girls!

Sexy corsets are worn by sexy girls as clubwear, in the bedroom and private parties when a woman wants to look special, sexy and sophisticated. Sexy corsets are a part of a sexy girls arsenal as they push up her breasts giving her spill out cleavage and bring in her tummy helping to make her look flawless and fantastic.

Open Bust Lingerie leaves a Sexy Girl exposed!

Open bust lingerie gives  a woman an opportunity to be an exhibitionist at least in front of her lover or husband. Open bust or open cup or boob out lingerie is revealing, suggestive and very sexy. http://www.flirtylingerie.com/booutli.html

Buying Exotic Lingerie for your Girlfriend

Buying exotic lingerie for you girlfriend is a risk as it isn't just like all other lingerie. When you are buying exotic lingerie for your girlfriend you need to keep a number of things in mind so it will be a success and she won't want to return it or refuse to wear it.

The first thing is to remember is the thing that attracts many men to exotic lingerie is exactly why many women don't care for it. Right off of the bat it seems that there is a high degree of conflict when it comes to this very unique and sexy style of lingerie. Let's start with some basic descriptions, definitions or simply ideas to get us started. The term lingerie covers an enormous amount of ground although most of the men and women who don't buy sexy underwear on a regular basis don't know and really have no good reason to care. One analogy is that of a motorcycle that the insiders know is a great line, awesome racing pedigree and most men and virtually all women don't know that and again really have no reason to care much. That same reality or conflict exists in the lingerie world.

Lingerie is everything women wear under their clothing to begin with as bras, panties , shapers, camisoles and the like all can be described as lingerie. The sub categories stem from there and they are often just a term that is used by insiders, lingerie manufacturers and retailers and few others. That is not to say that there aren't a good number of women and even some men who are much more knowledgable about the subject but again most simply don't even care. Lingerie is worn by women for a relatively short period of their lives, from somewhere in the range of 16 to 18 or older all the way to perhaps 60 years old and this is an estimate as some women well wear it much later than that while others stopped wearing the garments much sooner.

Lingerie is associatd with sex, romance and the like and thus the reason for young girls and older women shunning or being shunned away from the idea of wearing such a garment. Lingerie is rather odd in that it is one of the few garments that young girls should not wear as what reason on earth would an 11 year old girl be doing wearing sexy lingerie or a 70 year old woman? I don't condone the 11 year old girl wearing any sexy lingerie as it suggests strongly that sexual activity is present and that is obviously inappropriate. The 70 year old woman is quite another matter and if she wants to wear it all the more power to her for doing so. Our society has many of these "unwritten rules" that most of us follow just because it seems like the right thing to do and who is to argue that societal norms should not be adhered to?

Now did you notice I slipped a ringer in there as I was saying why would an 11 year old girl be wearing "sexy lingerie"? Sexy lingerie is a sub section of lingerie as you likely know. Sexy lingerie by its mere title suggests that not all lingerie is not sexy and that is a fact. But who makes that decision? Well, you the consumer does ultimately, although the industry tries to establish some very, very loose guidelines. Remember I said loose as there is no guide, text, or anything else that says this is sexy and this is not.

So where does exotic lingerie fit into the picture? First the definition of exotic will give us some guidance as it means unusual, one of a kind and that is what makes it so popular and risky at the same time. Many women, not all, do not relish the idea of wearing anything that shows off their most intimate parts and that is particulary true of any flaws, real or perceived, and therein lies the rub. Exotic lingerie can and usually is skimpy, suggestive, less rather than more and it reveals a woman's bust, hips, butt, stomach and so on. Thus it isn't for every woman but there again you can see why it is so much in demand at least by some women and the men who love see them in almost their all together.

So all you have to do is go into a boutique, sex shop, lingerie department and ask for exotic lingerie? No, not quite as first of all many lingerie retailers don't even carry the stuff. It can be an issue of how is it to be displayed? Or we don't want to attract that kind of crowd! So it is often limited to sexy lingerie boutiques, online sites and porn stores that carry xxx tapes and a smattering of the really sexy stuff.

So what do you do when you do find it, you buy it and your girl or wife won't wear it or only wears it that one time and then it is sentenced to life in her panty drawer never to be worn again? The solution to this problem is either solved before you buy it or shortly thereafter or forget about it. Remember I said that many women and that may include the gorgeous creature in your life who won't wear it or will only wear it once and then wants to return it to get her or your money back. Keep in mind that due to the nature of this type of lingerie in particular it may be impossible to return it due to the packaging or what body parts it touches intimately. So what is a guy to do when he encounters this dilemna?

How do you sell ice to the eskimos? The likely answer is you don't as they aren't that stupid. But how do you get a woman to wear something that may show off her unsexiest parts? Most women have body image issues, some minimal and some rather significant. So you want her to ignore years of fears, concerns and down right emotional problems when it comes to her body and show off all of her deeply hidden issues concerning her stomach, thighs, butt and the like? Not likely!

Here are a couple of ideas but keep in mind that much work has to be done before you buy her anything. I don't suggest that there is any magic fix to some of these issues. First you must establish a real, demonstrable sense of trust in your relationship. She must trust you aren't going to ridicule her, laugh at her, call her silly for her thoughts or the like. This could take days, weeks, months or years. If it isn't worth the effort then either buy her jewelry, candy, flowers, shoes or any number of other items. Lingerie is a great couples gift but it does come with some baggage. Buy her some safe or safer lingerie items like a chemise, corset , camisole set or many other items that aren't nearly as sexy but are cute, and make her look awesome.



Keep her in mind when buying sexy lingerie as she not you has to wear it and if she doesn't like the way she looks, regardless of what you say, she simply won't wear it or she won't wear it often. Consider her feelings when she walks in front of you and she feels fat, unsexy, hideous and that is not to say she looks like any of these descriptions but the issue is does she think she does? Encouraging words at a time like this are essential but may not do much so don't be surprised. Of course a woman wants to be told "you look great", "you look hot" or simply "wow". Of course you must offer her encouragement, praise and it helps if you actually mean it but it may simply not be enough as it is very, very difficult for most women to wear things they think make them look ridiculous.

Why do Women Love to Wear Sexy Lingerie ?

Why do women want to wear sexy lingerie and why do men want their women to wear it? What causes a woman to want to wear lingerie, look sexy and expose their bodies to men? The answers to these may not be as obvious as it appears?

1. Tradition: What does tradition have to do with it anyway? Well why don't American women wear a burka or a kimono or perhaps grass skirts? Yes I know most women in this country don't wear any of those with the exception of the burka. But women have been wearing babydolls since the 1950's and sexy panties at least since the late 19th century. Tradition has a lot to do with what men and women wear and there is a tradition issue for a lot of lingerie such as stockings, garter belts and so much more. Variations of traditional undergarments make up a lot of women have under their skirts or what they wear in the bedroom. Although styles have changed dramatically there are still many traditions that girls who turn into women feel compelled to follow. Many of women's concepts of sexy lingerie and clothing have evolved over many decades and even a couple of centuries resulting in what she will wear tonight.

2. Popular Culture: What women and men see on television or the movies forms much of what they want to wear or see others wear. MTV, BET, Charlie's Angel's, Kill Bill are just a few of the images that have influenced what women wear in terms of sexy costumes, lingerie, shoes and boots. The skimpier, skankier, sluttier and suggestive they are, the more some women want to find that sexy lingerie, erotic clothing and suggestive outerwear. The media truly suggests to all of us what is cool, hot and sexy particularly when a gorgeous woman with a great body is seen wearing the item.




3. Porn: Ok, admit it guys if you see it in a porn movie being worn by the likes of a busty porn star then why shouldn't your wife look good in it? If it looks great on Jenna Jameson then it sells. She is hot and sexy and she has to wear something for some time doesn't she? While some of the outfits are fairly extreme we offer much of it or many items identical or nearly like it and they are best sellers.

4. Strip Joints: Who else but the strippers and dancers have pushed the envelope when it comes to provocative wear whether it be outerwear, not so much and lingerie? Sexy lingerie and stripper wear are often synonomous as they are skimpy, colorful and worn snug and suggestive.




5. The internet has encouraged the explosion of sexy lingerie sites that is much akin to the porn sites that supported the internet since its inception. Sexy lingerie like porn is at home at the internet as men and women can buy sexy stuff that their neighbors or children don't have to see. You don't have to park in front of a shady establishment and approach a sales clerk to buy a pair of sheer, crotchless panties. Anonynimity is salvation to the lingerie business as you don't have to let anyone know you are a closet fetish fan or enjoy wearing women's panties.

6. Why though do women want to wear sexy lingerie is partially answered by one through five as accessibility. The easier it is to find, the less expensive, the more frequently it is seen the liklihood is greater that women and men will want to buy the product. But why are women more inclined to buy and wear this stuff? Perhaps most simply because it is more accepted than ever. We see women 18 and older buying crotchless pantyhose, panties, micro mini skirts and 5 inch heels every year. Unlike older women they are conditioned to accept these items as normal, near normal and useful. Useful in that they are wearable in and often outside the bedroom. The men in their lives want them and often encourage these women to look outrageously sexy and arousing, at least in the bedroom. They have no or few objections to buying the sexy in lingerie. Social norms have changed in many ways. There may not be many frontiers to explore but that doesn't stop some women from trying.

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Are you familiar with Squidoo? Squidoo is a community of bloggers or mini bloggers or at Squidoo they are called Lenses and the authors are Lensmasters. We got started there a couple of years back and we have compiled a number of lenses on subject related to lingerie and clothing. We would like to link to those lenses, there are a lot of them to let more people know about our lenses and feel free to take a look. You will also find some very interesting lenses on just about everything and many of them are truly awesome. No kidding! We invite you to see our lenses and take a look around the thousands upon thousands of other Squidoo lenses!

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Sexy Lingerie, Stripper Wear and Shapewear

Sexy lingerie, stripper wear and shapewear are some of the product we offer. Our newest partners provide you the sexy lingerie, stripper wear and shapewear you have been asking for we are so pleased to present it to you. Our partners are committed to giving our customers the best quality lingerie and clubwear available. We are wanting to give you the best we can find throughout the world in our quest for the sexiest lingerie and clothing we can find.



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