Sexy Lingerie for the Summer!

What kind of sexy lingerie do women wear in the summer months when it is often hot and steamy, night and day? Sexy lingerie for the summer months is imperative as romance simply heats up in the months of june, july and august. The first response might be no lingerie as it is too hot to wear a lot of clothes, much less lingerie. Well that might be correct as most everyone wears less in the summer, shorts versus pants, no hose versus pantyhose, short sleeves versus long sleeves. But back to lingerie! What kind of lingeris sells well in the hot months of the year?

These
sheer fringed panties priced at $24.99 look like they would be a cool item to wear on those long, simmering nights that seem to go on forever, don't you think?

Sheer lingerie is popular no matter what time of year as it is see through, after all and it keeps you cool and seductive looking night and day. The sheer stretch babydoll is priced at $28.99.

Doesn't this look cool and well, comforting? Perhaps but one thing for sure it is in line with the sexy, seductive lingerie of summer. The sheer fishnet booty shorts set is in turquoise at $19.99.

What would summer be like without a sexy pair of sexy crotchless panties especially under a sexy mini skirt or short shorts to make a summer evening a very special one.

Why Should Women Wear Sexy Lingerie?

Why should women wear sexy lingerie in the bedroom or before sexual activity? What is the point of wearing sexy lingerie when the lingerie ends up getting removed shortly after putting it on? Does sexy lingerie really serve any purpose other than helping make a woman a sex object?

I was reading a blog the other day from a feminist and it stood for the position that sexy lingerie is a bad thing and objectifies women as sexual objects and is dehumanizing to her. At first I was amused that these feminists are so off base that they don't get it. How wrong can a feminist be to dismiss the value of sexy lingerie to women but on the other hand it was indeed a woman writing the blog post. After reading it again I decided I still disagreed with the post but thought it was a good starting point for presenting the opposite side of the argument. It is my belief as a woman that it is up to the individual woman as to what she wears or doesn't wear in bed, before sex or to work. This tyranny of the feminist left is over reaching as it presumes to tell women what they can't and cannot wear. Why in the world would the fringe left or the wacky right presume to think they can dictate what anyone wears? But this ignores the question as to whether the wearing of "sexy" lingerie is a means of men objectifying a woman?

Certainly we can agree that sexy lingerie does expose a woman's body in a very suggestive and sexual way. Much of the sexy lingerie is sheer, transparent, short, skimpy and naughty. Thus a simplistic approach to the wearing of sexy lingerie would argue that that in itself is making a sexual object out of a woman's body. What this argument ignores is a woman's free will to present herself as a sexual being which she is regardless of what she or others think. All of us are sexual beings and there is nothing we can do about that. How we project ourselves is entirely up to us. The argument that it is "men's attempt to make women a sex object" is assuming so much simply for the sake of many feminist's agendas to make men responsible for all that is wrong with the world. In this case men are innocent of anything other than enjoying women's sexuality and there is nothing wrong with that.

The reason women wear sexy lingerie is as varied as there are women. No doubt some women wear sexy lingerie to please the man in their lives. If this is not voluntary then of course it is inappropriate at best. Forcing a woman to wear any garment is wrong but on the other hand anything a couple does in the privacy of their own home that is not illegal is perfectly appropriate. Wearing sexy lingerie is a means to an end that apparently many women enjoy but there is no doubt that men's desire is a component. Trying to insert yourself into the decisions of adults in the bedroom is simply a waste of time regardless of the reason. Free will is free will and to suggest that women only wear lingerie for the sake of men is patently false.

Feminism has done much for women although what it has done in the bedroom is difficult to ascertain. Sexy lingerie is a garment that is often a prelude to sex and in many ways much of what goes on in a bedroom is for the sake of sexual gratification. Is it mistreating a woman if he climaxes and she doesn't? Is spanking her bottom gently or telling her to do something like "faster", "harder" or "don't stop" dominating her? Where do we stop if we get on the slippery slope of telling women or men for that matter what is and is not appropriate?

I suggest we stay out of the bedroom altogether with our political agenda's and religious beliefs if the parties in the bedroom don't ask for the direction. It is legitimate for feminists to express their opinions but like politics and religion it is best to keep a hands off position on the subject of sex which is after all a major component of buying, wearing and introducing lingerie into the bedroom. I suggest most women dismiss the arguments that wearing sexy lingerie objectifies a woman as perhaps it does, perhaps it doesn't but who really cares? In some ways it is like preaching to people that chocolate is bad for you because it has sugar, caffeine and causes one to gain weight. It clearly appears that this is the case but it is also delicious, satisfying and millions are not about to stop eating it for those reasons. Sex and sexy lingerie and sexual enjoyment and men and women are so intertwined that virtually nothing is going to stop her from wearing it and he from wanting to see her wearing it.

So why should a woman wear sexy lingerie? One obvious reason is she wants to be appealing to her boyfriend, husband or lover! Simply put sexy lingerie puts an uncomplicated image in front of her lover that she wants to be romantic, have sex or otherwise engage in sexual play. Wearing sexy lingerie is similar to a football player putting on his uniform. When he does he and others around him know that a football game is about to occur. Does he do this in a vacuum? Does he do this in the men's room at his wife's office? No, wearing sexy lingerie is done in a certain context, often at a certain time, although not necessarily. Wearing a sheer babydoll is unmistakably a suggestion that she wants sex, fondling, forplay or some other sexual activity. Sure she could strip naked and say F@#$ me! Or she could simply lay down on the floor, spread her legs and point to herself but that is kind of crude. Wearing sexy lingerie is an accepted means of saying without speaking.

A woman should wear sexy lingerie because it, like putting on business attire is a means of showing her co-workers, boss and family that it is now time for work, not play. Wearing sexy lingerie can put a woman in the mood because she likely associates sexy lingerie with pleasure, arousal, adult activity and sex. These associations are very powerful just as telling your 9 year old to put his swimming trunks on! As he is racing into the bedroom to get them on is he thinking he is going to the dentist, church or school? No, he is thinking how much he loves going to the swimming pool in part because he recalls instinctively how much fun he has had at the pool. Associations are part of our lives and we know it.

Finally and perhaps most importantly a woman should wear sexy lingerie if she loves the way she looks and feels when she put sexy lingerie on. Wearing a new outfit, new shoes, or jewelry can make a woman or man feel good about themselves. Simple things like "you smell good" or "is that a new tie" or simply "have you lost weight" are things that can make our day. If wearing sexy and revealing lingerie makes you feel good or brings back good, even great memories then that is a great reason why women should wear sexy lingerie.

Lingerie Articles & Squidoo Lenses

Lingerie articles, sexy lingerie articles, squidoo lenses about lingerie from Flirty Lingerie. We offer articles about lingerie, lingerie models as well as squidoo lenses about everything we sell and great information and tips about how to and where to but the sexiest lingerie and clubwear.

The owners and staff of Flirty Lingerie are constantly adding articles about everything we sell and everything related to what we sell to inform our customers and the web about our expertise. We have selected some of the best of these articles here for you to access at your leisure. If you have any questions about these or any other subjects, please let us know.

Lingerie Articles:

Lingerie Articles : As our site is primarily about lingerie we have selected some of the many articles we have written over the years about the subject near and dear to our hearts and minds.

Sexy Lingerie: Wear it to the Boardroom, Movies or Clubs Lingerie is not only worn in the bedroom as it is sexy clubwear, great for the clubs and movies or out on a special date with your lover or husband or both. Wear sexy corsets, camisoles, sexy bras and sheer tops out of the bedroom.

Men Buying Lingerie - The Do's and Dont's Part 1 Men love lingerie and have since forever. The problem can be that they don't really know how to buy sexy lingerie for the woman in their lives. Our guide gives you some points and tips on how to buy the lovely woman in your life sexy lingerie.

Sexy Panties: G-Strings, Thongs, Boy Shorts and Crotchless Panties Women love sexy panties, panties and sexy underwear and so do the men in their lives. We do a run down on the latest sexy panties so you have a good idea what to look for and what to avoid in the wonderful world of sexy panties.

Sexy Lingerie - How does it make a woman feel? Part 1 Wearing sexy lingerie makes a woman look and feel desirable, sexy and sensuous. The way sexy lingerie makes a woman feel is one of the best reasons for a woman to buy and wear sexy lingerie.

Want to throw a Lingerie Party? Are you going to throw a theme party? Is the theme sexy lingerie? If so you may want to take a read of this article as we explore the fun of throwing a lingerie party for the girls or girls and guys.

How to take sexy lingerie pictures? Your lover looks hot and sexy in her underwear and you want to take her picture. Assuming she agrees then you need to read our tips and suggestions on how to make her look adorable and sexy. Avoid making her look vulgar and unhappy as taking a woman's picture in her panties takes more planning and skill than you may imagine.

Sexy Lingerie - How to care for your Lingerie?

Sexy Bras - Sexy Lingerie There are bras and then there are sexy bras and you will love the way you look and feel in a sexy bra.



Squidoo Lenses:

Sexy Plus Size Lingerie Buying sexy lingerie in plus size is fun as you are full figured and curvaceous, voluptuous even. Lingerie looks so hot on a woman with curves in all the right places. Show off those sizzling curves and heavenly hips on a woman who is just a Goddess!

Sexy Lingerie - An Erotic Honeymoon Adventure Getting married? You may need to wear the sexiest honeymoon lingerie you can imagine as these memories will last a lifetime.

Garter Belts are Sexy Lingerie The title should be garter belts are the sexiest lingerie in the world. Yes I said sexiest without a doubt.

Club Wear Club wear is clothing with a very sexy attitude. Don't wear it if you are afraid of being a sexy doll!

8 Mistakes Men Make When Buying Lingerie

Men often make 8 mistakes when buying a lover or partner lingerie , sexy clothes or corsets . Avoid making these 8 mistake that men make when buying lingerie by paying attention to this article as well as listening to the woman in your life. More than candy or flowers but way less than diamonds, women love receiving lingerie as a gift. Lingerie lasts forever or at least a very long time while candy is eaten or is fattening. Flowers wilt in a matter of days and are thrown away. Lingerie is the start of a romantic evening or evenings and tells her that you desire her sexually and that is an amazing compliment. Giving lingerie as a gift is reserved for someone who you care about, love or want to have intimate relations with so getting it is so much more than most other gifts a man gives a woman. After all you give your kids candy and your grandmother flowers so the connection with romance is unmistakable.

The problem is buying lingerie is not as easy as chocolates or roses. The choices in lingerie are fairly significant and men often fail to avoid the mistakes often associated with lingerie. Avoid these 8 mistakes and you will be happy you did!

1. Buying lingerie and forgetting who it is for!
While it sounds ridiculous it is really one of the largest mistakes men make when buying lingerie. Unless your lover, wife or girlfriend is a porn star, stripper or model then don't by any means buy her lingerie as if she were. But, you say, I want her to look sexy and I want her to fulfill my fantasies. I want her to wear it is what you should be saying and going outside her comfort zone is a bad idea. Many men come into our retail store with the same dilemna. They buy their wives or girlfriends lingerie and they wear it once and they never wear it again. What a surprise! Why would a woman wear a clown suit in Times Square just because you thought it was sexy? While that may be a little over the top the truth is women also come into our store and complain "my husband bought me this strappy contraption that I didn't even know how to wear and ......". Either she returned it or threw it in that dark hole known as her lingerie drawer. There are stories of lingerie going in there and never seeing the soft glow of the bedroom lamp ever again. Don't mess with the Lingerie Gods as they do not suffer fools easily! So rule number one should never be violated - Buy sexy lingerie for who she is and not what you want her to be. You can still get something very sexy, arousing and something that lovely creature will wear over and over and you are her prince in shining armour.

2. Not knowing her size!
While number one is important, this mistake may just take the cake. Picture this, you are all excited about buying her some sexy lingerie and you will buy some wine, maybe some cheese, maybe an adult movie and she opens the nicely wrapped lingerie and she goes into the other room to put it on and it does NOT fit. Thats right it is too small. Her body looks contorted, misshapen and well, fat. She is not amused, perhaps on the verge of tears. After all, all you did was make a mistake but she had to show you her body in this poorly chosen garment. There goes the sexy, romantic evening. Now she will forgive you but how many times will she forgive you? Know her sizes and if you don't know her sizes, don't buy her anything that risks buying her the wrong size. Truth be known if you are in a relationship with a woman and you are "romantically" involved then why in the world do you not know her sizes? At least once a week a man comes into our store and says "well she is about your size and awkwardly looks at her chest" referring to the sales girl. How is it that the sales clerk is everyman's wives size? Amazing and also not true. One day or evening this week you will be alone for a while and take a pen and paper over to her bra and panty drawer, every woman has at least one. Take down her size, remember to pick the items she presently wears, not the ones you like. Also get her night clothes sizes, babydoll, chemise, slips or whatever. Put it in your wallet and update it from time, especially if she has lost or gained weight. If you do this the 5-10 minutes you spend will pay off greatly in a short time. Knowing her sizes tells her you took the time to know that about her and she will appreciate it. It will impress the sales girl to, for whatever that is worth. Try and find things like small, medium or large as well as bra sizes 34C or panty sizes 5,7 and 9. If she is plus size look for 1X, 2X and so on.

3. Not knowing her tastes!
This one is a little harder but not too much. Simple things like her favorite color show you are on the ball, interested and caring. Picking orange when she hates orange means you are an idiot. Now I don't mean to be so critical but put the shoe on the other foot for a minute. Say your favorite pro football team is the Philadelphia Eagles and your girlfriend buys you a Dallas Cowboy jersey. Just a simple mistake? Women are very aware of color in their wardrobes thus so must you. Is she a thong girl or a boyshort girl? Some women consider g strings to be nasty and refer to them as butt floss. Other women adore the way it makes their butt look. Some women prefer to wear a pair of panties and a t-shirt to bed while others want a corset, matching panties, a pair of stockings and sexy high heels . Which one is your lover?



4. Not knowing her strong and weak points!
Aside from Heidi Klum and Pamela Sue Anderson most every woman has something about her she would change. It may be as simple as the bump on her nose to the jelly roll around her waist. From her cottage cheese thighs to her small breasts. Others love their big boobs or their flat stomachs. Whatever her strong and weak points are you need to know them and purchase accordingly. Accentuate her strong points and avoid showing off her weak points and she will love you for it. Tell the sales girl she has big boobs and she loves to show them off, or she is embarrassed about this or that. While there is no need to go into much detail you do need to use this information as much as possible. Violate her weak points and you may be spending the night on the couch watching that adult movie all by your lonesome self.

5. Expecting the sales clerk to know her tastes or what she will wear!
This is the strongest sign that a man is in over his head and likely will not survive. If you don't know what she likes and you sleep with her, who else in the whole wide world will? While it doesn't hurt to ask, hopefully you will take the well meaning sales clerks response with a grain of salt. Many of our sales girls come to the employee area amused that they should know what a woman they have never seen, much less spoken to would like to wear in the bedroom.

6. Shopping at the wrong time, under the wrong circumstances!
Don't wait until the day before or heaven forbid the day of the event whether it be Valentine's Day, the night before leaving for a vacation or the day of her anniversary to pick a gift. You are risking making a decision she, then you will regret. A thoughtful gift requires taking the time to make the right decision. I know you are busy but this is an important gift and waiting until the last minute is risky.



7. Shopping in the wrong place!
This is fairly simple. Don't go to the sex shop on Highway 10 that sells porn and buy her a boxed set that one size fits most. While these are a good value the one size fits most label is a clue. How can a garment fit someone who weighs 105 and is 5foot 2 and another woman who weighs 149 and is 5 foot 7? The answer is it probably can't or likely won't. Conversly don't go shopping at the Mall department store for lingerie as you will likely be disappointed. These stores, including Victoria's Secret are mainly foundation stores. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that if you are looking for bras or panties. Victoria's Secret is a terrific store but it too has some limitations.

8. Don't know the return policies!
Most stores do not allow returns of intimate garments, particularly panties and other garments that are panty like due to Federal law. There is also the eeeeeuuuuuwwww factor as worn panties are not resellable. Some stores do not allow returns on a number of garments and it is up to you to know before you give it to your partner. If it doesn't fit and she can't return it then she may be particularly peeved at the mistake. Please be careful and follow these 8 suggestions. They are simple, straight forward and easy to follow. If you do you can thank us for the wonderful, romantic, arousing evenings to come.

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Happy Valentine's Night!

Happy Valentines' Day should really be Happy Valentine's Night for couples. Happy Valentine's Night is more appropriate as Valentines is celebrated at night, at dinner, or even in bed. I suggest you look at this from a more realistic perspective. Valentines Day is all about romance! Valentines Day has really nothing to do with the day, but rather the night. Anyone who has been in love, searching for love, or simply thinking about Love on Valentines Day knows exactly what I mean. Don't deny it cause you know it is true.



For those who don't get what I mean, let me explain! Valentines Day is about chocolate which is renowned for its erotic and potentially aphrodisiac value. Flowers are a symbol of romance and are given as a symbol of friendship, and so much more. Sexy lingerie is simply about romance and an evening filled with erotic thoughts and behaviour. What about that romantic dinner? What about that extravagant gift of diamonds or jewels? The gifts given during the day, or cards exchanged during daylight hours are all about what one or both hopes or believes will occur after the sun goes down, thus why I say that Valentines Day is all about Valentines Night.

To be sure, Valentine's is anticipated by many, and dreaded by others. Many people do not have a Valentine on Valentine's Night. Admit it, it may be you, as it was once me. On Valentines Day you see it, and actually for many weeks prior. The commercials such as every Kiss begins with K!, or are you getting her or him candy, a card, jewelry, or maybe even a car for Valentines Day? To be sure the day has become like a lot of special days, just another reason for Hallmark to design a card. I even saw a card on a Mexican food restaurant that said " Celebrate Valentines Day with us! That is not to say that eating Mexican food on Valentines Day is inappropriate, it may be a wonderful idea, but I just never thought of it as particularly romantic.

How do I suggest you celebrate Valentine's Night? Well, I think you know that it must contain some sexy lingerie. But it should start with acts of love and kindness that will make the sexy lingerie an even better idea. Consider these ideas! I believe in inexpensive ideas, just lots of them: Go to his or her work and fill their car with balloons! Yes, fill it! I will never forget when my boyfriend did this for me. All my friends at work were so excited to see my face when I saw it, and passers by honked and I was embarrased in a totally delighted way. Arrange for him or her to get a special delivery- preferably not flowers. Try cookie bouquets and while telling him or her you love them, also tell them not to bring them home as they are for her/him and their work mates to share.

How about the good old sign displayed on the way home. While some areas do not allow them, many still let you rent a small sign for the day with a special message for the Valentines girl or guy. Here's a good one. Order their favorite food or other item and have it special delivered via Fed Ex. My husband will NEVER forget when I arraned to have Randy's Donuts from Inglewood California Fed Exe'd to arrive on the day. The people at Randy's were awesome. Remember the huge donut that towers over the donut shop in Los Angeles? You have seen it in movies, tv, print, almost everywhere as it is a cultural landmark. Well, the donuts are perfect, if not a very guilty pleasure. Imagine his or her surprise when their special pizza from John's Pizza in Greenwich Village in New York shows up! Wow! How about their special cheese cake from The Cheesecak Factory? The list is endless and you know what she or he really loves! Almost all of them have websites, or of course a phone!

Finally, make sure the final surprise of the evening is sexy underwear from FlirtyLingerie.com.

Lingerie for the Holidays: Sexy Lingerie for Christmas and New Years

Buy her sexy lingerie for the holidays as the gift of lingerie for Christmas is what she wants. Buying sexy lingerie for her is a personal gift that makes a statement that you find her desirable and sexy. The holidays are a time for sexy lingerie and intimate evenings. Forget the stress and strain of holiday shopping and family meals, and remember that relationships can be strained with all the things to do, parties to attend and shopping to do. Don't forget to plan some time alone, to rekindle the romance or just have some serious adult fun. Lingerie is the perfect antidote to the holiday blues.

The holidays are a time for family, true, but your wife or girlfriend is a part of the family too, isn't she? She deserves some special lingerie and so do you. Also don't forget one of the most romantic holidays are just around the corner. So much attention is paid to Christmas, many people almost forget that New Year's Eve is the week after Christmas and we all know how hectic that can be.

Yes, New Years Eve is a very romantic time of the year. I always wondered why everyone seems to get so excited about the New Years holiday. Isn't it just an excuse to party until midnight, toast each other, kiss your loved one as what you are doing on New Year's is a prediction of what you will be doing all year long, right? Well, over the last couple of years, New Years have become very romantic, because I have made it romantic. Start planning now, cause the reservations will be taken fast. Wherever you live there will be New Years celebrations and you have your choices. There are the parties held by friends and families. There are the parties held by the major hotels in your area. I suggest you try one of these major parties with all the trimmings including the hotel room and breakfast the next morning.

This is the time for sexy lingerie . If you have kids, get a baby sitter who can spend the night. Plan a luxurious evening complete with dinner, dancing, a midnight snack, breakfast and have I left anything out? Of course! Romance! Last year my husband and I reserved a local hotel room that had dinner for two complete with champagne, the room and a breakfast buffet. Not as extravagant as previous years, but memorable nonetheless. We packed for an evening of fun. Don't forget the swimsuits for the heated pool or jacuzzi. An extra bottle of wine, or two. A digital camera and of course, sexy panties , bra and panty sets and precious alone time.

We started off the evening off with a romantic candle light dinner and had a little dessert to top it all off. When we got back to the room, we relaxed for a while, then headed down to the heated pool, jacuzzi and sauna. Luckily they were all indoors, but thankfully we took our little plastic cups and a bottle of wine and divided our time between the relatively cool pool and the steaming jacuzzi. Wow, what a relaxing time, but we headed back to the room just in time for midnight, and the ball in Times Square on television.

Out came the lingerie and the camera, and we all know that these two items were made for each other. My outfit was a combination of sexy sheer thigh highs, a bra and panty set and a pair of 4 inch platforms, boy did I look hot and trashy! I won't go into any more details, but the next morning came way too soon. We got up and dressed and got down to the New Years brunch about noon, and while we weren't terribly hungry, the coffee and sweets were appreciated.

On the way home we both agreed that this was going to be a happy New Year.